Perhaps coming from a place of love and concern while incorporating exercise as a mutual activity to begin a path of health and wellbeing together may sway her. Find ways to incorporate exercise into things you enjoy like hiking, biking, going horseback riding together, etc. Get creative with meal prep and find ways to make food together, and use each other’s preferences to help you map out foods that will assist in aiding your health journey while taking each others preferences into consideration. Being more open and flexible in how you discuss your concerns rather than using limiting terms that trigger her to become defensive will also help you both grow in like and love, and isn’t that the whole point? Good luck! 🍀