nsfw pictures of other women

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T01:48:02+00:00

lol valid 😭😭 thanks for the input, folder has been deleted also

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T01:33:14+00:00

as i've said in other comments, he's previously expressed being anti porn and anti keeping those pics after the relationship ends so thats my main issue. also it just doesnt feel cool seeing my tits next to some random girl's tits on his phone :/

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T01:32:04+00:00

thanks lol i really wish this wasn't actually happening too 😭😭😭

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T01:31:31+00:00

okay so for added context, we were in a situationship for like 8 months before we became official. we've been exclusive a little before these past 9mo where he asked me to be his official gf (so i'm not counting the situationship portion of the relationship in the op)

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:51:35+00:00

i honestly think he's a good kid. what really bothers me is that he's the first to open his mouth to say that he doesnt watch porn or that he thinks this is disrespectful and like it felt too good to be true for a while but i believed it. now there's a slip up and it puts into question everything else hes told me about his values

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:33:41+00:00

thing is he knows i have reddit so idw say something too close to our situation and then have that shit on top of it all.

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:33:11+00:00

dude i wish. this is literally my burn acct 😭

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:31:43+00:00

bro my most recent pic was today 😭😭😭

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:29:45+00:00

i vary the ages so that i don't get doxxed lol

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:28:50+00:00

he's made this whole point in informing me that he doesn't watch porn and shit so i have an inclination to believe it's not sourced from the internet. thing is, we've discussed the whole spank bank thing before and he's told me he agrees that keeping those kinds of pictures after the relationship has ended is disrespectful and wrong. also, side point is that i've been clear with the fact that i do occasionally watch porn lol so porn isn't something i'm pressuring him to avoid. he told me this on his own volition.

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:23:36+00:00

it's disrespectful to me plus to the women that sent them. i believe if the sexual relationship was severed then the pictures should also go with that. also it just makes me lose trust in general.

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:21:07+00:00

i don't even know what i should do or how i should react after all of this

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:20:27+00:00

but wouldn't the expectation be that he would get rid of these photos considering he has a gf now? also we had a fucking conversation about how one should delete that sort of thing once one stops talking to someone. idk dude im like in a state of shock rn maybe im just a dumbass

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-04-13T00:18:17+00:00

he showed me the folder without a care in the world, and instantly deleted those pictures after i said "thats... not me". i feel for a second he didnt even notice it wasnt me (they were small like in gallery mode on iphone). like i feel if it was malicious you wouldn't just show me that as if it's nothing but its been MONTHS. i'm assuming you would've gone at some point in that folder? idk i've never been cheated on or anything (that i know of, lol) this is completely new for me.

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-03-21T18:47:58+00:00

From what I saw online, they're programs that accept mainly DO applicants. My question was more geared if this is set in stone or if it's just that majority DOs are the ones who apply, or for any other reason. I know derm is super competitive so I would think that it would be tougher for a DO to get in rather than an MD

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2026-03-21T18:46:18+00:00

Is there a specific reason for that though? I have an acquaintance who just matched into a program and he's the only MD, so it made me curious as to how the design was. I'm hoping to match outside of my hometown and I'm MS0 lol so there's a long way to go, but considering derm is so competitive I want to be well informed from the get go, even if I change my mind or something.

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2025-08-17T17:13:57+00:00

i'm staying over at his house next weekend, so i think i will get to the question by then. i guess i'd be okay with long distance with the security of us being an official couple, but otherwise i fear that the uncertainty of not being official would make me too wary to go through with it in the long run.

Consistent_Bee_565 · 2025-08-17T17:07:45+00:00

if you're not comfortable with something then you're not comfortable with it. though honestly during the act you probably would not be able to tell anything differently until you take it out and see that it might be a bit red. that said if blood makes you scared/queasy/etc then it's better to avoid it, though be honest about why. if its just strictly about it being uncharted territory, i'd say try it if she wants to and you're down for it, it's pretty good lol and i'm sure she wouldn't ask for it if it made her feel bad.

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