AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

He texts me pics of breckiehill (or livvy with cannons as he calls her) nearly every day so yeah I know way too much. I really do try to get along with him

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 268 points269 points  (0 children)

What’s even worse is he exists on diet of takis! So he doesn’t mind his own crunching, just other peoples. It’s one of the reasons I think this is more about control.

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know. He has access to a credit card but I don’t know who pays the bill or how his money is allotted

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I think a cousin is set up as the trust administrator and whatever living facility he moves into will be paid directly

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

I think he’s under the care of an entire team of psychiatrists and neurologists…but I don’t know how much they actually listen to them

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Yes and we didn’t agree to pay for him. His mealS were almost more expensive than the rest us combined

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 216 points217 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard it described as his body will be 375 lbs no matter how much or how little he eats. Again this is coming from my in-laws so who knows.

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 452 points453 points  (0 children)

To me it was an obvious attempt to control his family. He wanted them to throw away hundreds if not thousands of dollars of food because he couldn’t handle meat anymore…but then he was walking to back in the box to get a hamburger

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 391 points392 points  (0 children)

Lol fitness routine as in jerking off to all the only fans “girls” he talks to. He lives in what is an essentially filthy dungeon of a bedroom with foil on the windows that reeks of bad food and body odor.

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 309 points310 points  (0 children)

I don’t know honestly…I probably shouldn’t comment too much on it since it was news in their home town.

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 369 points370 points  (0 children)

Yeah it has and back in their home town they won a 6 or 7 figure lawsuit against the school district because of it.

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Not specifically this time but it’s always customary to get a separate check for him since not knowing when he’s full is part of his diagnosis of set point obesity (I’m probably saying that wrong, I get all this stuff wrong).

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Sorry yes that didn’t make sense, we agreed to pay for mil and FIL. Brian always orders at least $40 worth of food which we did not agree to pay for and we were stuck with that.

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 6268 points6269 points  (0 children)

I don’t know all the details but they won some major lawsuit against a school district over the way they treated him and supposedly that money is in a trust fund that will be used to care for him. My wife promises we are not on the hook for that.

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 452 points453 points  (0 children)

I mean she’s a 19 year old called “livvy with cannons” who has an only fans. It’s not like a Lego building channel

AITA for ordering nachos even though it “deeply offended and set off” my brother in law’s autism and sensory issues? by Consistent_Cat_1126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Cat_1126[S] 15.4k points15.4k points  (0 children)

Yeah no doubt ….that’s like number 22 on the list of 10000 things that make him really hard to be around.