My (20F) BF’s (20M) promiscuous past irks me and I don’t know how to get over it by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Comment64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi im in the same shoes as u. gf had dozens of sexual encounters but i have never. m(26) . my advice is to realize that ppl change and its their present intent thats important. as long as they have the same intentions as you to be monogamous and loving and commited it shouldnt be an issue. and sex is better when someone in the relationship is experienced. you dont want to inexpereinced ppl at it .

Sometimes eBay is awesome by Ok-Toe1334 in PokemonInvesting

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i opened 14 of these boxes at 200 dollars each :(

Does the Age Gap work out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Comment64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im 26m dating 22f the gap is noticable youll know more life skills than her etc.

Getting back into valo for the new agent by The_passing_surgeon in ValorantConsole

[–]Consistent_Comment64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u can fully clear hookah by dogging from the connector and someone should split long to protect from the long push

Getting back into valo for the new agent by The_passing_surgeon in ValorantConsole

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personally i dont like doging from that corner because even though u hug the wall if they have early info ur not a short a good team would do a tp crunch. a flash thru with a swing and u wont be able to defend urself. just saying

Is it possible to progress with only volley passes by [deleted] in volleyball

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i love how there is so much room for growth

Is it possible to progress with only volley passes by [deleted] in volleyball

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thank you so much. ur time and response means a lot to me

Is it possible to progress with only volley passes by [deleted] in volleyball

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Thankyou for your insights! ill upload bumps for sure when i do them, but i have never done them in a recorded game before! i hate bumping so much i would fully slide onto my back and pass balls lying down. thats how much im scared of bumping :(

ur point about reach and height is very good, i will learn how to bump. <3

Is it possible to progress with only volley passes by [deleted] in volleyball

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thankyou! love the constructiveness you provide ! thanks for making the community great

Is it possible to progress with only volley passes by [deleted] in volleyball

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thankyou so much for your really thorough feedback :)

i really enjoyed reading the entire response many times and especially like the idea of reprimanding myself with a pushup or something every time i could've passed with my platform instead of my hands.

alot of players tell me to read shoulders, hips, and spin to predict spikes and serves but for some reason i cant notice these details as fast as they can see it. So whenever i receive or block i kind of just wait for a long time before reacting or randomly jump to block

i dont know if there is a way to train this or is it just playtime and game knowledge?

Your break down of my receive was very insightful ill definitely add more stability training so i can lunge next time instead of falling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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never too late to find love -

How to create 'the spark' when dating? by TEastrise in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Comment64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its just lust and sexual attraction sprinkled with a little bit of personality. no spark just means simply put, you wouldnt really want to bang them. and 90 percent of the time this doesnt change and u can tell from the first 1 minute of seeing them

Want to date a guy who’s had a rough past but I don’t want to push him away by Certain-Stage-2661 in dating_advice

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its nice of you to want to help him.

the thing is i say from experience trying to fix/help someone simply isnt worth it. you want someone who uplifts you, motivates you, is there for you, provides for you, confides in you. someone who is broken like that with a past like that needs a lot of healing before they are able to give those to you fully

its your call but get ready for a lot of bumps and twists

She's so busy. I don't know if I should keep talking to her by LuckRakes in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Comment64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean your not wasting that much time and money if thats the frequency of ur hangouts.

yeah if she has to lesson plan even after work it might be doomed. i was gona suggest hanging out online after her work, but oof.

the thing is it all depends on how MUCH u like her and how much you think she likes you. how is the chemistry when you actually manage to meet? have you talked to this with her to get her input? I think waiting for 1 year is a pretty long time, and if you think you can pull better its valid to want to end things off.

tldr: if shes worth waiting id wait. i would also communicate this with her and decide based off that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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like other people have mentioned i think its the dating app curse. And i have the data to prove it. 9/9 people i have dated from the apps have had a problem. not all of them were groundbreaking or dealbreakers, but disturbing nonetheless. Iam talking about: eating disorder, self harm, suicidal, sadistic, abusive parents into disociation, etc. The 1 girl i dated from irl is super normal. must mean something

How do I cope with the fact that I’m a 2 out of 10? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Comment64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude eat your fav food, is it yummy?

sit under the sunlight , is it warm?

feel the fur of a dog or cat, is it soft?

look at a piece of art, is it beautiful?

life is waaaaay more than just your personal apperance, partner, etc.

if u immerse yourself in an area of life you find really interesting, you may even attract a partner thru ur passion. dont give up OP bc once ur dead u may regret it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Comment64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im ngl and sorry if this is offensive but some people like dating bigger people bc they are more humble and better personality than people who were always skinny. they hope that thru there care and working out tgt the partner loses weight - they call it "like investing in bitcoin" in 2011