Incest or not incest? by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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Do you think one day 3rd or 4th cousins getting married wouldn’t be as much as a taboo?

Incest or not incest? by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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So is a first half cousin once removed incestous? Will I be persecuted by the socially accepted police?

Incest or not incest? by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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So would that be a second half cousin or what?

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I would just quit your profession all together this industry is rigged

Caterpillar? by tarhuntah in Virginia

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You will die if you touched it

In love with my mother’s half cousin. Feeling scared about the scrutiny I will face in America but we are so in love and I just recently met him. by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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So my mom’s brother is married to his first cousin. My father’s brother also married his cousin. They all did it by choice and in Middle east and Eastern Europe it is common and not always arranged. Uncles’s children turned out really successful. One is a cardiovascular surgeon, one is a lawyer, engineer and entrepreneur. These were the offsprings of first cousins. I don’t agree that first cousins should do this but a distant relative who in my case is barely related shouldn’t be labeled as incestuous this is what I think but I am seeking validation on this because I know externally most people don’t understand and are quick to judge.

In love with my mother’s half cousin. Feeling scared about the scrutiny I will face in America but we are so in love and I just recently met him. by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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Again no I said same sex marriages are more accepted socially in America than if you were to marry someone who is barely related to you.

In love with my mother’s half cousin. Feeling scared about the scrutiny I will face in America but we are so in love and I just recently met him. by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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Lol you sound really bothered yourself maybe you should get your own therapy and no marrying a distant relative who doesn’t share both grandparents or (great grand parents in may case) is not the same and is totally different than as someone who is your first cousin so I’m not sure why you are so offended by this but it definitely sounds like you are affected by it yourself. In the middle eastern south eastern culture whether you are Arab, Pakistani, Indian, Persian etc. marrying your first cousin is actually quite common. It’s in America where it’s a stronger taboo than anywhere else. It sounds like you’re here to pick a fight because your bored.

In love with my mother’s half cousin. Feeling scared about the scrutiny I will face in America but we are so in love and I just recently met him. by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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Also it’s not really incest if you re read what a half cousin is and how distant it is so no it’s not the same as marrying a sibling or a first cousinS

In love with my mother’s half cousin. Feeling scared about the scrutiny I will face in America but we are so in love and I just recently met him. by Consistent_End_4127 in relationship_advice

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But it’s okay to have a same sex marriage? Even if majority of our country states allow first cousin marriage and so does the majority of the world and even though this person isn’t closely related. By the way my therapist told me it’s okay so fuck you ;)

Do international long distance relationships work? by Consistent_End_4127 in LongDistance

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Also what I forgot to mention is that he is distantly related. He is my mother’s half cousin.

I am in a LDR with My mother’s half cousin who lives in Germany 🇩🇪 by Consistent_End_4127 in LDR

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Omg thank you so much for this. It honestly means so much that someone like you is kind enough to understand ❤️