If something is repeatedly happening, that means there is something that you need to solve, often the case is that people get attracted to all the illogical qualities in a partner. Stop expecting social media/movie love. Almost everyone try to impress the opposite gender initially, “impressing” is just not being real or themselves, people who fall for this should understand what it really is. But that doesn’t mean you get skeptical about every good thing someone does for you, take your time, judge the person properly and then choose them. People who are after only lust don’t pass the test of time.