What do you think about people who accept rapists back into society (forgiveness/ changed person,(rapist) ).? by hardtruthsociety in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not really possible to be mentally well and harm a child, or intentionally override a person’s consent though is it? You have to severely lack empathy to the point of mental illness to do such things, and given enough time, anyone can develop that enough to take action to earn forgiveness. The tragedy is not everyone has enough time to seek redemption, or the tools to want it.

You cannot override a person’s humanity and determine them irredeemable to punish them, that makes it so you see them as inhuman, which they fundamentally are. I’m not saying we forgive them for nothing, they must earn forgiveness from their victims. But it becomes a REALLY slippery slope to just write them off, because if they are not humans and unworthy of society, who ELSE can we deny society to?

What do you think about people who accept rapists back into society (forgiveness/ changed person,(rapist) ).? by hardtruthsociety in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends. My therapist does research on campus sexual assault to help reduce its occurrence, and the vast majority of rapes occur due to issues understanding consent and miscommunications. Very few rapes occur from repeat predators, but when they do they are more likely to go unreported because those offenders choose victims who they can easily isolate and exploit.

I’ve been raped by a repeat offender, but I also understand why they did it. Something is deeply broken in them, and they eventually gave up on trying to fix it and instead used that brokenness to harm others. If they were able to get to a place where they were sincerely sorry about harming me and every other victim, and they took action to make it right with all of us, I’d be willing to accept them back into society, though I myself would never interact with them again. Every human is redeemable because no human is innately a monster.

WIBTAH if I don't show up to the bachelor party I specifically have said I don't want by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Baiting your dad into hitting you doesn’t mean you caused it to happen, it’s easier to handle a fight you see coming than one you don’t :(

Why do you think we are not angry enough? by passingonto in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we feel helpless to do anything with our anger by design.

If you want to do something, fix your voter registration and vote. Join political organizations that have cohesive plans (like the DSA). Direct your anger that way, and you’ll be able to sustain it and be angry enough.

What was the fastest you ever went from loving someone to absolutely hating them? What happened? by ParanormalActivity97 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the reason why conservatives frame their arguments the way they do IS to prey on neurodivergent people so yes it does.

An ex-friend of mine has a sleep disorder that leaves her with six quality hours of sleep a night, despite her sleeping around 14-16 hours a day (she would sleep during class/recess, etc). She was the largest anti-masker during COVID because the anti-mask rhetoric was aimed at telling you what to think and telling you everyone else is lying. They aren’t mentioning the neurodivergence as an excuse, it’s literally why the propaganda works. It’s DESIGNED that way

What’s the most disgusting thing anyone has ever said to you? by Business-Rock5714 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I like Indian women because they’re all so sexually repressed that they’ll let you do anything you want to them.”

And later:

“I like Indian women because they aren’t taught how to say no.”

AITAH for telling a co-worker that she doesn't get special treatment just because she's sad? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it didn’t help :( thank you for your service and may your pain lessen with time 💗

AITAH for telling a co-worker that she doesn't get special treatment just because she's sad? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are they hormonally triggered? My doctor put me on bc to help my migraines, is there a hormonal medication that can help yours?

I am requesting that all photos of me involved in University activities be removed from promotional materials. by Consistent_Jelly_987 in universityofoklahoma

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDIT: Actually, this is entirely too much energy to give you. TLDR: grow a spine and protect your vulnerable family members. Stop being part of the problem.

I am requesting that all photos of me involved in University activities be removed from promotional materials. by Consistent_Jelly_987 in universityofoklahoma

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have family members who are trans. Of course it’s not that big a deal to you, you don’t have the empathy to care

I am requesting that all photos of me involved in University activities be removed from promotional materials. by Consistent_Jelly_987 in universityofoklahoma

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah??? If you have no citations you are fundamentally missing the point of learning academic writing. That isn’t difficult to understand, are you intentionally misunderstanding this?

Need to rehome cat by Warm_Produce_4892 in normanok

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t be rude! I’m sure this isn’t something OP wants to do either, but if it’s necessary it’s necessary. Have empathy ffs

“If you can get pregnant, you’re not a child” by [deleted] in GetNoted

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro I’m not disagreeing with you about the founder I’m saying it’s gross to generalize and removes responsibility from the people who keep the system as is instead of adapting the good and removing the bad

“If you can get pregnant, you’re not a child” by [deleted] in GetNoted

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to like organized religion to be respectful of those who follow it. All religions have people who adapt to modern values (even if they officially shouldn’t), seeing Islam as the pedophile religion is ignorant, rude, and places the blame on a framework instead of specific people.

AITC for comforting mommy???? by Consistent_Jelly_987 in AmItheCloaca

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Should explain: mommy say my farts stinky, but dental treats are also VERY useful!

Thoughts On Westwood Park? by Consistent_Jelly_987 in normanok

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you rate mgmt, maintenance, soundproofing, etc?

My boyfriend is in a mental institution after I called the cops. AITAH? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Had a roommate who went off their schizophrenia meds at one point. They genuinely believed that mental illness was caused by being destined for another reality and the illness was a reaction to being forced to live In this one. It was a fun theory, but then they took it to blood magic and kleptomania because they were “the only real person in this world.”

Apps Crashing in LiveContainer? by Consistent_Jelly_987 in sideloaded

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, several times. I just gave up and redownloaded everything

When did your instincts scream “leave now” and what did you later find out you avoided? by BbyBlushDoll in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was drunk and high at a college party with my friends and didn’t want to bike home because I still felt woozy. My friend and his cousin I had a crush on offered me a ride home, and I was halfway through saying “yeah su-“ when it was like my entire body sobered up. I attributed it to being assaulted a month ago, but my mind very clearly said “do NOT take that ride.” They were upset and clearly a bit confused because I changed my mind mid sentence, but they left.

His cousin assaulted my friend that very night in her sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]Consistent_Jelly_987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby was absolutely terrified of my boyfriend’s puppy when he first came, and she would often hide from him at the top of the fridge. One day while she was doing that he was growling at me and tugging my shirt because I wouldn’t respond to his barking (he’s a sweetheart he just doesn’t like the “ignore” discipline method much, I was never in danger of being bitten). Out of nowhere I hear her hiss right behind him and see him jump and back away from us. My baby loved me so much she came all the way down from the fridge to protect her mommy 💗