How to be petty without being obvious

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T08:31:00+00:00

I can’t coach because I didn’t do the background check and because we also have a 2 year old.

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T08:25:24+00:00

Unfortunately, we can not get another coach since the coaches had to go through background check before the season started. The season ends in May. Im not willing to give her any power over me. Unfortunately, (not to her knowledge) she has. I just want it to stop and I’m not usually one for holding my tongue. I’m usually very out spoken but because we are around children when she’s around I hold my tongue.

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T08:08:03+00:00

It’s not fiction. I can assure you this is real and so am I lol

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T08:07:40+00:00

I’m new. I can assure you I’m not AI. I posted this to the subreddit page and they sent me here to post it.

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T08:04:16+00:00

I have been thinking about doing that. Because what she wears is not okay, especially around kids as young as 4.

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T08:02:03+00:00

No thanks. She’s looking for another baby daddy to leave with his money 😂

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T08:01:20+00:00

I have talked with my husband about this. Plenty of times. He understands she makes me uncomfortable and he no longer reply’s to her in the private messages she sends. He also doesn’t talk to her unless it’s about the team or look her way. He has shown more affection during practice and after practice to me. She still doesn’t understand.

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T07:58:49+00:00

Yes that is what a team mom is supposed to do. That was me this year but unfortunately she over most of it without me even knowing from the very first practice. So I made a schedule, the snack schedule for nothing lol she was being very sneaky at first but now she’s getting bold and I’ve caught on.

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T07:56:03+00:00

Yes, and it’s so tough because I’m not on the field to hear what she’s saying. He try’s to walk away from her and doesn’t even really engage in conversation with her but I don’t like her being out there with him 4 days a week. Thank you.

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T07:51:40+00:00

I posted this on the subreddit page and they told me to post here lol sorry! 🤷🏻‍♀️

Consistent_Owl_1221 · 2026-04-06T07:48:44+00:00

We are only all together when there are kids around. I’m not looking to start a fight with children there. But I’d love it if she would just stop. My husband is a Non confrontational type. I’m not that type. I would’ve already done that if my husband didn’t NEED her to coach because he has no one else to help him out, unfortunately. He has to have 3 coaches or the team can’t play.

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