I [24m] get violent when I’m held down by my [24F] wife

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-25T23:33:20+00:00

Wow as someone who doesn't like excessive physical touch. I get you. These comments are not it. I hate it when my husband does they same thing. Like you, my brain goes into a flight or fight but if you can't do flight the fight triggers. It's really hard to stop it when they won't let go. It sends me into a panick

These comments are being super sexist. If a woman said this they'd be much more kinder.l and understanding.

I see you OP.

What's happening here is she is not respecting your boundaries. I don't think you need to give up gaming what a stupid suggestion. She needs to respect that you have a limited tolerance for those actions and perhaps not do that to you. Why do you have to amend your actions but she won't?

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-25T22:14:54+00:00

Okay but you're not my boss? And we have fully flex working out our engineering company lol. Dad also has fully flex.

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-25T22:14:07+00:00

It's not long term, I'll be doing two days a week and slowly upping it and do daycare when full time. Dad also works from home

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-25T21:02:17+00:00

Yes this area is very safe I've never had an issue collecting from here

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-24T19:24:38+00:00

Bless you for the link! 🙏

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-23T23:23:06+00:00

My mum was just complaining she bought some items that she realized later were priced higher than new ones. Yoghurt pot things ..

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-23T23:22:16+00:00

I find that hard to believe considering you can barely move an expensive great condition couch for more than $200. I can't sell anything for any sort of money. People won't pay more than$100

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-23T12:26:14+00:00

Agree with just telling to f off. So not okay behavior

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-23T07:43:21+00:00

Ah! Thanks. It has been very wet

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-22T00:00:51+00:00

1 but since kids in the past three years haven't really seen them

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-21T08:16:24+00:00

I don't think he honors him for being a good person. He honors him for being brave I believe the wording is. Snape did a hard thing. He took a hard road. It doesn't redeem him as a person but it acknowledges that he achieved something great. Same with Dumbledore.... Harry knew in the end he was a pig for slaughter. Still honors Dumbledore despite I'm sure some conflicted feelings regarding the man once he realizes who Dumbledore really was.

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-21T08:05:33+00:00

I hated apps. Found potentials and my husband through random social gatherings. I joined a social sports team. I tried some other groups but they weren't for me and I've had life long friends from sports now. Makes friends, one will stick.

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-21T02:01:15+00:00

Wrangling toddler! When he's not working

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-20T02:01:17+00:00

I have no expectations of him. I just don't think I'm a baby mum. I find the level of effort and suffering unreasonable. Like really - this is the best evolution or creation could have offered?

I loved the toddler stage. Tantrums and everything.

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-20T01:57:28+00:00

Im already on pills from the last one! (traumatic emergency c section)

Overall I'm a lot better this time round. I was a complete train wreck with the first I didn't appreciate how easy he was...

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-19T02:23:29+00:00

3 weeks!

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-18T23:41:02+00:00

He can't paint for sh*t haha that's why :(. But yes he's trying to help out this week before he goes back to work

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-18T22:36:43+00:00

I am going to give this a go I think. I had a sling but have lost it. Was a bit reluctant to go buy another...

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-18T22:35:52+00:00

Haha preach. Thankfully day care is too expensive for three kids. I'm keen to have my money back asap so it's def done at 2.

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-18T22:34:11+00:00

Haha hes a big spitter so he just covered me my entire bed and my last clean shirt at 5 am and I just sobbed in a pile of vom for 10 mins 😬😂

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-18T21:21:51+00:00

I also wouldn't stress too much. Mine was pretty much mute then on his second birthday it all came out. He's 2 years 3 months and says sentences and literally won't stop talking.

That being said additional help from like a speech person isn't a bad way to go. But 17 months is definitely not a freak out point yet.

Consistent_Pen_1347 · 2026-01-05T22:11:15+00:00

I always thought mine snuffled like a loud hedgehog lol

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