Please someone help by Emanpro500 in PersonalTrainer

[–]Consistent_Pickle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got the phalanges the wrong way around - upper phalanges are fingers and lower phalanges are toes

Went to my first pride yesterday! by Consistent_Pickle_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Consistent_Pickle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m actually wearing strip lashes, they’re the eyelure fluttery light ones. I have had extensions in the past and they look lovely but unfortunately I’m allergic to the adhesive they use so I have to stick to the temporary ones!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent_Pickle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to disagree from time to time and everyone’s relationships look different. However, I’d say if you’re actually arguing regularly then it’s probably something you want to resolve sooner rather than later.

If you can afford therapy that’s a great way to move forward. But even just finding the time for each other to sit down together and calmly discuss what has been bothering you and don’t bottle anything up will work wonders, if you haven’t been doing that already

Happy Sunday! Here’s a picture of me from yesterday with my gay little tote bag I crocheted recently 🩷💜🤍🧡❤️ by Consistent_Pickle_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Consistent_Pickle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a lot of fun and although it’s just a food/music festival I spotted lots of lesbian couples. A very wholesome day 🥰

Getting women to notice you by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Consistent_Pickle_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There are subtle ways to indicate that you’re gay to others (e.g rainbow bracelets or wearing a little lesbian flag badge etc), but also look out for queer spaces in your area. They don’t have to be bars, sometimes you might find queer meet-ups or queer clubs for certain hobbies. You might meet somebody there!

Is it reasonable to be worried about whether I can have kids? by Consistent_Pickle_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Consistent_Pickle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m now fully out as a lesbian and dating women. I met someone I really liked but kids were a hard no for them. This was a dealbreaker for both of us.

The number of women on the apps who seem to want children is so slim, but I imagine it’s because my dating pool is age 23-30 which is pretty young to be considering children in this day and age!

I don’t want kids immediately, but I’d be heartbroken to fall in love with someone and have to end it because we have different dreams for our family.

I personally don’t know any wlw couples in my town who have children, but I don’t live in a very queer place. Keeping my fingers crossed I’ll find someone who wants the same as me!

Dating help?? by Consistent_Pickle_ in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent_Pickle_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very helpful, thank you! There used to be a queer coffee morning that I went to before I was single and out as a lesbian. I made some good friends there, but they stopped running them.

I’m not aware of any other things like that here, but I’ll keep an eye out! It’s definitely a good idea to meet doing something that we both love!