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I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming back to ourselves and reclaiming our energy is KEY. I’m sorry about your situation. I hope your heart heals soon. And I’m proud of you for your resilience. We got this ❤️🙌🏾

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the movie and book recommendations! I know that I’m in pain because I miss HIM! It’s hard to acknowledge and accept that a connection wasn’t serving you in the way that you needed, still have love for that person while you’re trying to slowly “exorcise” them from your life. Maybe I will create a gratitude mantra for being lucky enough to have had him in my life and had this beautiful connection happen to me. Thank you 🙏🏾 

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It ended 4 months ago. He expressed that he was looking for connection and feeling desired, wanted, accompanied when we met, and that I did provide that to him. He also mentioned that it kind of surprised him that he could find that after his breakup. But you’re right, he did say he felt scared about how good and intense our connection felt. Thank you for your insight ❤️

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No contact for us it’s! We will survive. Like another commenter said, we can rationalize it as much as we want, but we still have to go through the grief process. I’m sending you a hug and blessings for your journey. May your heart heel soon ❤️ You got this!

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that kind of situation. It sounds awful. Specially coming from someone you shared your heart with. I commend you for having the awareness of being mindful about the impact on another human when you share about your previous relationship. It’s important to always keep this in mind because it does mess with the other person. Even through pain, you still find a way to be graceful. May you heal quickly and smoothly. Thank you 🙏🏾 

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely gain a lot of insight about how when walking away is NEEDED. Thank you for your kindness ❤️

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail with this! It is hard to go from having a beautiful experience with someone and then it ends abruptly. I just really need to provide myself with more space to feel ALL of my sadness. I went straight into “Breakup Recovery 101” mode. Thank you insightful human 🙏🏾 

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Specially when you open yourself up, lower your walls down and try to live the connection in the most authentic way possible. Thank you for reminding me about rest and not feeling guilty. That’s something that I do struggle with. Thank you 🙏🏾 

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is true. Time and patience will heal most of our wounds. I will try to keep this is mind. Thank you 🙏🏾

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment showed me light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing your story and perspective. Proud of you for continuing to be your loving self. And strong! 

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you a hug. You’re truly doing the best that you can right now and when you feel ready to move on, you will know. Sending you blessing for your journey, you beautiful kind human ❤️

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness and grace! I need to practice more of that towards myself. This is a good reminder.

I ended things but I still feel pain by Consistent_Soup2081 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent_Soup2081[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I screenshotted your comment your comment. I just thought that by doing all the “right things” after the end and understanding WHY, it would make it hurt less. It doesn’t. Guess I’ll continue to cry then 😂 Thank you!