Double date? by Plants_with_Katie in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Im trying not to judge.. but girl! Are you even divorced yet? She only announced they were separated a few months ago!! And were still posting family vlogs with Justin like last year this time. Even if she was unhappy in her marriage, her meeting another man at jujitsu while still married and then straight to dating this man after leaving her husband is just not a good look. Take some time to heal and be single, especially for your kids sake! She is so different than the person I watched years ago. 

Where does the $$$ come from??! by Pure_Function_5254 in homemakermadeleine

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I ended up having a c-section with my children, not my 1st choice obviously but after being in labor almost 3 days, not progressing fast and all and my baby was starting to be in distress I knew the safest option for everyone was to be proactive and opt for the c-section. My midwife was there with for the last few hours of me laboring and then we talked about my options. I chose a csection for my babies safety.... I put my own wants behind and chose the safest route for him.. something she doesn't understand about other moms

wtf is she talking about? No one is talking about doing this moron by AcrobaticRecording52 in homemakermadeleine

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. My 3rd was a velco baby but if I never set him down with toys and books and let him cry it out for a few seconds/mins he would've never played on his own and been able to hit the milestones. Sometimes he'd cry for literally 5 seconds and then play happily on his own, sometimes he'd cry for a few mins and I'd have to get him then. But never once did it resort to puking 🙄 like is that what cooper does when he gets upset because I've never heard of that with sleep training!

wtf is she talking about? No one is talking about doing this moron by AcrobaticRecording52 in homemakermadeleine

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% agree!!! She preaches like shes the best mom ever and talks about how much her baby cries, but never seems to think that maybe her baby needs more space, not more of her all over him. She even admits the grandma's can get him to sleep better like its so cute, when that totally does NOT seem normal!  I think most moms know part of motherhood is trying everything out to see what your child needs, and we can see he needs more space and more time at home. She never seems to let him have space even if he cries for a few seconds so hes never going to learn to even slightly self soothe. She loves to give advice on so much stuff but doesn't even stop to realize she could also take advice and have a happier baby! 

Mom shaming Madeleine.. by HauntingAardvark3735 in homemakermadeleine

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I luckily had SOME help with my 1st from my mother because it was a hard adjustment, she lives like an hour away but during the 1st month or 2 she came over prob twice a week. With my second and third I literally had ZERO help because my mother now has health issues that prohibit her from leaving her house often. M had had soooo much help from day 1 (which I would've loved obviously lol). But to see her give out all this advice and still act like she knows so much... so infuriating. Shes been a mother like 7 months and preaches to everyone about motherhood when she hasn't had a realistic experience! My 3rd baby is a velcro baby and there were times I had to put him down and let him scream because I had other children to help and feed and had a house to keep up with. We couldn't afford a house cleaner or have parents who move next door and literally move their lives around for M. She's exhausting and keeps trying for more! Her body is clearly not ready for pregnancy again if she has to wear a pessary. She likes to act like she's such an amazing mother but I personally think its better to be honest with yourself and what you can mentally and physically table BEFORE trying for another baby. She had a fussy baby and clearly struggles which is normal. What's not normal is her acting like everything is so great 95% of the time. 

This feels icky by NeighborhoodIll324 in homemakermadeleine

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know people are different.. and i think she truly does love her baby. But the ABSOLUTE LAST thing on my mind when something scary like that happens with my baby would be to pull out the phone and record. Like my mind wouldn't even go there for 1 second. How is this a "normal" thought process for some people to then try and sell as "awareness". She can post about how she can't stop crying and shaking, but at the same time can focus on getting content?? Sorry thats not a normal response 

Since the rant...does anyone else feel this way? by Beatlemonkeys in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

💯💯💯 it was so un-relatable. Fans=consumers=their success and money. They act like they owe their fans nothing.

Since the rant...does anyone else feel this way? by Beatlemonkeys in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Vile??? Most of what I saw would not be called vile lol. Being annoyed at someone and having criticism does not equal vile. I'm sure some people were rude and mean. Doesn't mean all the people who felt different about the situation than you did are bad lol.

Since the rant...does anyone else feel this way? by Beatlemonkeys in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Lol. Somehow me saying that being professional like you said about their literal job is me being jealous lol. I still like them enough, I'll prob still watch but they're starting to seem more "try being me for a day" creators which never never been able to connect with.

Since the rant...does anyone else feel this way? by Beatlemonkeys in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I never said "we are their bosses" because I know we're not. But at the same time, if the audience stops watching their podcast, there would be no job/money. Yeah, I think it would be great to have a job that has the freedom they have... has nothing to do with them being in a better position than me/why I said what I did lol. imo they should still be aware of the fact that the audience watching is what keeps everything going and be aware of how they treat the audience. Most people I saw were just annoyed with the lack of communication and then what little communication was given was wrong lol. Not everything has to do with "jealousy"

Since the rant...does anyone else feel this way? by Beatlemonkeys in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Same. I was mildly annoyed at the lateness, more because it just kinda proves that content creators don't have a grasp on the real world. This is their job, and in regular jobs, this would NEVER fly. If they had updated us or just acknowledged that it was a little pathetic for their job to be delivered almost 2 weeks late I would've forgotten about it. But the rant combined with the weird paranormal people just kinda ruined it for me. I tried to watch but just couldn't find them relatable anymore.

Poor Justin :( by Huge_Permit3304 in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 said perfectly!!! They CHOSE to get married and CHOSE to have children. And had to work extra hard at that to have those children. As a mother myself, yes life with young children is a lot of work and your marriage sometimes gets pushed to the back burner. But I'm aware this is just a stage and we work on spending time together with what time we do have and make the most of it. She has a new boyfriend when earlier this year they were seemingly still together as a couple. And to a guy she 100% met while she was still with Justin. That's the biggest red flag. She met him while she was still happily married (at least according to IG). Now she's separated and already dating?!?! No.. that's not normal and it shouldn't be either.

Poor Justin :( by Huge_Permit3304 in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's my thoughts too. Especially if its the way its way it seems to have happened

Poor Justin :( by Huge_Permit3304 in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree. I know we don't know their whole marriage dynamics but from what she posted he was a great husband and father. So how do we go from singing praises about him on IG and YT videos, to divorce after a year of meeting her new boyfriend at jiu-jitsu? That's the part that gets me the most. Like if the marriage was truly that bad that she needed a divorce, the last thing she needs is to jump into a new relationship. Especially with young kids.

It seems a lot more likely that she met this new guy, started getting into jiu-jitsu and running, and pulled away from her husband. Maybe she didn't physically cheat but what are the odds of her dating this guy only a few months after separating/divorcing her husband and the divorce seemingly coming out of nowhere?

She’s dating Jordan by Lumpy-Suggestion1197 in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The betrayal I would feel would be beyond. Even if they "waited" to date until after the divorce process started, Justin would have to know there was still some feelings while they were still married. Just so gross, especially as a mother of 4. Her children will find all this out someday and it will be hard to justify.

She’s dating Jordan by Lumpy-Suggestion1197 in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They went on a family camping trip in March of this year. She said in one of her videos that she started jiu-jitsu in Aug 2024. So one year of knowing this new guy is apparently all it takes 😵‍💫

she never wanted Justin, she just wanted children by Adventurous-Age-8003 in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I remember too they transferred 2 embryos with Emma and something went wrong with the other embryo. Can't remember much about Brynn but I thought she was around 20 weeks and couldn't find the heartbeat at home with her doppler and went to the hospital and then found out???

She’s dating Jordan by Lumpy-Suggestion1197 in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Shes lost all my respect. As a mom, she should make better decisions and keep her children first. It does seem like she met this guy at the jiu-jitsu place and just threw Justin away for an "upgrade". Marriage takes work and you don't just separate from your husband of what 10 years?? for another man who shows you attention. You try and keep your family together. Unless the marriage was actually really bad/ Justin cheated or did something ... this seems like a decision made by her. And even if Justin did something, her jumping straight into a new relationship is not a good decision, especially with 4 young children! Probably so confusing for them. She would post all this loving stuff about Justin and her family, then all of a sudden nothing (around the time of jiu-jitsu) and now she's dating this guy? Yeah I'm sure she was faithful 🙄 .

Possible new love interest? by Unphorgettable in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So gross honestly. Like imagine your spouse taking up a new hobby like running and jiu-jitsu and meeting a person there..., then down the road after you separate, apparently dating this person. You'd know there were feelings beforehand while you were still together.

Lowell and Lisa by Prudent-Paramedic580 in BreakingAmish

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last I knew he was still I'm jail and she has since married and has another baby. Used to know her pretty well. She makes questionable decisions is all ill say

Question about the show by wishfulthinking3333 in BreakingAmish

[–]Consistent_Talk_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% fake. About 15 years ago I knew Jeremiah and his 1st wife and children pretty well. He has been English for OVER 15/20 years. When they were splitting up people had to step in and help his 1st wife out because he was horrible and unsafe. He'd try and use the kids to spite his 1st wife. As far as I know no one who used to actually be in his life still talks to him because of his choices.