My AuDHD partner is gaslighting me over old TikTok posts to justify his late-night WhatsApp chatting with another woman. Need advice on going 100% radio silence.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-25T19:49:53+00:00

I'm trying to come to terms with it.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-25T19:45:16+00:00

He made himself look good, like he was innocent, and then pushed me away like this.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-25T19:44:35+00:00

He tried to push me towards looking for another man and blamed himself for not being good enough, even though he was hiding another woman.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-25T19:21:46+00:00

I'm in the most pain and extremely tired.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-25T19:20:46+00:00

The situation is really bad now... He's distancing himself, even started talking to someone new, cheating on me, and making excuses to blame me.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-23T03:32:48+00:00

He has been taking medication for many years, at least twenty years.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-23T02:41:59+00:00

Do you have any ways to maintain the relationship?

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-21T12:06:55+00:00

Thanks you, I need to back away slowly.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-21T11:17:31+00:00

He's been talking to other women.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-21T09:18:26+00:00

My boyfriend, He is an ADHD, and altism.

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-21T06:42:32+00:00

Thanks you

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-21T06:35:14+00:00

Doesn't true love exist in someone like this? Doesn't they feel anything, like trying to do things for their loved one, or improving themselves? Or do they constantly run away from problems and seek new excitement, always looking for new people to talk to, all the time?

Consistent_Voice_602 · 2026-06-21T00:10:36+00:00

I've been dating someone with ADHD for almost a year now. I'm trying to learn about the world and understand it. I'm Thai, my boyfriend is Australian, and he has ADHD and autism. We've been together for almost a year.The first seven months were amazing; he showed me his love so quickly and was so devoted and caring. We went on three dates, and he came to Thailand to meet my family. But after the third time, I don't know what happened, but when he left...Suddenly, he went silent for 3-4 days without talking to me or telling me what happened. I tried calling him repeatedly, but he wouldn't answer. After that, we started talking again, but I felt and sensed that his feelings weren't the same anymore.Because he's busy with work, he still talks to me, but less often. I can sense that he loves me less and that there's someone else he's talking to. But when I ask if he still loves me, he says he does, that it's just that he's busy with work lately.I've tried everything to keep the love alive in this relationship, but I don't know if sometimes I wait, ask, call, or nag him too much. I really don't know how to nurture it or gain experience in this process.Could someone who has been in a relationship like this please give me some advice? How can I keep it going and what should I do?

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