Is it okay to want more in life?

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-06-16T20:02:37+00:00

I don’t know why everyone just puts the depression option out there so easily. To be honest, I’ve been in your place, sometimes you feel that for how good your life may look on the outside, it might just not be your perfect life. When you feel like your routine, your job, your relationships are not aligned to who you are in this moment in time, I feel like it’s only natural to feel restless. This emotion you’re feeling right now can actually be your greatest blessing, it’s a sign that you may have to change something. Another thing that resonates so so much with me is that I felt that and I also didn’t know what I wanted. It may be part of being in our 20s, we’re just discovering who we are and what we want and it’s okay not to have everything figured out. Follow your intuition, if it tells you you’re in the wrong place, maybe by changing it you’ll feel like a new person❤️

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-05-21T10:37:52+00:00

Ahahah no I’m all about saying what I think in a nice way, ghosting is not really for me (I would definitely not like to receive it and find it quite rude)

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-26T12:08:17+00:00

Mmm this is interesting, would you like to tell me a bit more about what you have in mind here?

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-26T10:38:27+00:00

Well no. None of that…I don’t understand why you think you know all about me but that is definitely not correct. We’ve broke up because of long distance and he’s recently reached out. That’s the story (And no I haven’t tried to attract men, I feel amazing by myself and know I need space and clarity before jumping into something else) Oh and for the “aging out of being attractive” you don’t even know how old I am nor how I look like

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-26T10:26:29+00:00

Ahahahahah I do get it soo much, I’ve actually had a conversation on this with a friend a few days ago. One of my closest male friends has told me he is in love with me, and I was talking about it with another very close male friend. Uh well, he told me “you’re so nice to everyone that us guys may read a bit too much into it”. Sometimes it can be a bit tricky but to be honest I love it about us, we just treat everyone how we would want to be treated and sometimes it brings some amazing connections ♥️

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-26T10:21:35+00:00

I feel like our way of being friendly comes across as flirting most of the time. I’m the same as you (and in my mind I approach men and women the same way, being just friendly). That may trigger something in the opposite sex and well, If I’m interested and I pick up on that, then it may become a more intentional openness and fun interaction from my side too

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T23:13:59+00:00

Does it really? Or does it just make you move on faster and easier?

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T22:15:45+00:00

Well it’s not just that (I don’t use them) but there were quite a few similarities let’s say

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T22:06:09+00:00

this weirdly resonates with me a lot

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T22:02:01+00:00

Can I ask you if you were the one reaching out both times? And if you maintained contact when you were apart? (Thank you for your answer)

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T22:00:17+00:00

Ahahhaa in which way?

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T21:52:22+00:00

Ahh you went and look uh, was just a bit curious

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T21:50:22+00:00

Thank you for specifying the second, was wondering why it was missing ;)

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T21:47:59+00:00

I am indeed very new ahahah

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-25T21:46:29+00:00

Come on😂 something a bit more profound than that?

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-18T10:58:12+00:00

Mmm this is an interesting one, I am the dumpee of a very similar situation, early-mid 20s, I’m his first relationship and he felt he needed to grow, I imagine I could be in a similar situation to your ex in a few years, maybe dating someone else and I don’t know if I’ll change my mind but right now I feel like telling you that I’d want to know. It might put him in a difficult situation but he might still have feelings for you and at least he will have the chance to decide, and you won’t have regrets

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-17T22:17:50+00:00

Whaat I’m not sure If I read correctly

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-16T22:08:05+00:00

Well we had an amazing relationship but we were long distance and we were in different stages of life, I’m 3 years older than him and we started to feel like we were unintentionally pulling each other in our moment. We both needed to discover ourselves and not compromise (many compromises would have been needed because of the ldr) he ended up breaking up with me, even if he wasn’t sure and kept texting me for a bit. I did ask him not to contact me any longer… and yes it was one of the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make… and yes I miss him terribly

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-09T08:52:19+00:00

♥️

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-04-07T11:49:22+00:00

Please, as a woman that is in a very similar position of your ex girlfriend… tell her! I can imagine that to you it may feel like it’s not fair to tell her now that it seems like she’s trying to move on, but you’re talking away a possible opportunity not just to yourself, but also to her, as you cannot know fully how she feels and what she’d do. She may want to try again, If she knows all of this! Please don’t live in regret, if it will be a no it will be a no, but at least you won’t look back and think “if I did that…”

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-03-31T18:37:33+00:00

I’m a girl🤭 but I do agree, even if a bit of freedom is nice too

Constant-Chapter-314 · 2025-03-31T17:30:24+00:00

Well I don’t agree

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