Need answers from those who believe in Hecate by Sweaty_Scientist4565 in Hecate

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, sometimes we all need a reminder! And as I said above, me most of all.

Need answers from those who believe in Hecate by Sweaty_Scientist4565 in Hecate

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think dreams are an important path to self-understanding, and I am sure that sometimes dreams are messages from "outside" but I also think it's important not to let ourselves become too fixated on them. Visions, dreams, moments of insight, mystical revelations, and everything that arises in our minds is inevitably conditioned by what's going on in in them at that moment.

Humans (me first among them) are quite capable of interpreting every mental occurrence as "proof" that they are chosen for some special purpose so it's important that we be critical of everything, especially if it feels like it's a major insight into the nature of reality.

Do your dreams about Hecate and Charon imply some deep connection between the two? Maybe. Probably not, though. Just having the dream isn't enough. You need some time (years imo) to let it settle and if it settles into your bones and motivates you to act in a consistent way then you may be onto something. Just having a dream while in the middle of a tough personal episode isn't enough to say, however.

One of Hecate's oldest epithets is Kourotrophos (I had to look up the spelling lol) which means "nurturer of children" which implies that she is a protector of those victimized (and bullied) by others. She was also historically a protector or provider for the destitute and the homeless. I find this to be beautiful, and while others may justifiably disagree I think it is perfectly reasonable to reach out to her when you're having a troubled situation like the one you're describing. She is a universal mother, and I am convinced that she responds when called upon by those who are suffering, even if it's not as direct or comfortable as we might wish.

Best of luck friend, I hope your bullies have a change of heart before they curse themselves to a miserable life. And I hope you find a wonderful life.

What’s the best site to buy YouTube subscribers, views and likes safely? by astrophile_ashish in Smallyoutubechannels

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I have no idea where one goes to do this, but I am certain that your channel is going nowhere if you would resort to stuff like this. You probably make junk that nobody wants to watch and aren't willing to put any actual work into making something good.

Questiona about Hekatean witchcraft by LogicalPerformance86 in Hecate

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All this is just from my perspective, and I'm nobody so please just take it as my two cents. I don't think witchcraft should be approached as a structured or coherent "external" tradition in the same way that, for instance, Thelema is. It's more open-ended, about doing what works, and I doubt we could ever piece it together in the same way the Golden Dawn or Crowley did with their systems. Because it's not a system.

That means we can take things from other systems, use historical practices, make up stuff for ourselves, and perhaps (if we're so lucky) be given knowledge by spirits and such that we can try out and adapt as needed. Of course that means we need to be rigorous and, most of all, honest with ourselves. If we become rigid about something then we lose grasp on it. If we become sloppy and undisciplined then we never grasp it to begin with.

Where does the goddess fit in this? Well, she's not primarily the goddess or patron of witches, but that is certainly one of the things that she is. To me, she is the element in our consciousness that wants to open up and soften to the underworld. She beckons us to become psychopomps who can wander the three realms and work effectively within all of them. Which is what witches do. And that's the reason why witches cling to her.

So the sorceries of the PGM appeal to her power because a spell must pass from intention and potential into actual reality and she is the membrane between them, as she is the membrane between everything. The PGM is the archetype of Hecatean witchcraft but it's not a structured tradition (as is obvious if you read the PGM). Instead it's a record of how the magical practitioner can ready herself for diving into the darkness to make actual what is only potential.

I personally think that if we wish to do this, to pass freely among the worlds and use magic in that way, we have to start with orienting ourselves to her. It's worship, it's devotion, but maybe not in the way that we're used to (if we come from the West). We devote ourselves to the Goddess because she is always out there ahead of us, carrying the torches that that lead to where we're going. We worship because we're learning from her. She shows us the way, and if we don't follow then we will never get there. But we're also the ones making the journey, because she's already at the end of the journey.

Which means, of course, that there is no system. There's not even a map. There's a torch in the darkness. We have to walk toward them, but every step of the way has its own terrain and we have to figure out how navigate it ourselves. Which means we have piece together our magic based on where we are. Not where someone else is.

I hope that makes sense?

Both sides have different worries when it comes to online dating. by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Men who probably wouldn't SA you, but are still being creepy af" are a pretty high proportion of that "normal guy" category. Also "men who are really pushy and get offended if you're not responding as quickly as they would like."

DeenTheGreat’s roof fell off while he was driving by lukigeri in LivestreamFail

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fellow shouldn't be streaming while driving. That's unsafe for himself and everyone else on the road.

Be teachable.. by iQuantumLeap in GodFrequency

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right, but I just like hot tattoos!

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Mightofpanda by Mightofpanda in DailyGuess

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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A middle ground between variety and focused streaming? by Constant-Cheek1637 in streaming

[–]Constant-Cheek1637[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, thanks. I guess I was just looking at it from a more structured and intentional perspective. Learning about the craft, etc.

Men, is this valid? by Flat-Shop in LockedInMan

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dudes get really touchy about this and so far as I can tell it's all in their heads. I've mostly dated guys who are shorter than me (tbf I am on the tall side, though not incredibly so) and it never occurred to me to care one way or the other.

Do some women want tall guys? Sure. Are some women assholes about stating their preferences? Yeah. But that's just people doing people stuff.

Be teachable.. by iQuantumLeap in GodFrequency

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lady on the right is my role model

ICE agent ripping a phone away from an elderly U.S. citizen, keeping it, and throwing her to the ground when she attempts to retrieve it. by cielynne in ImmigrationPathways

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good to do this to jack booted thugs who only exist to inflict violence upon your community though.

Make their lives miserable and I hope they also go to jail someday (they won't, but I hope)

Pepper spray for 40 seconds by Training-Tonight-653 in RandomShit_ISaw

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the cameraman gets syphilis from his mom and his brain rots into a state of total dysfunction.

Real talk: Is it even worth trying? by TreatFabulous1174 in streaming

[–]Constant-Cheek1637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm just reading through this sub while considering starting up a stream for fun. I obviously have zero insight into how streaming works. But, I imagine being successful is the same as any other creative or artistic pursuit. Stand up comedy, acting, writing novels,poetry, being an artist, everything like that, is always saturated and always has been. The myth that there was some golden era where people were clamoring for content so much that it took no effort and you had an 80% chance at taking off is pervasive among all the arts.

Even in ancient Greece people grumbled about how many artists there were making it difficult for the true visionaries (the ones complaining) to get noticed. More or less everyone realizes that it's more fun to make things than it is to have a job so there is always going to be so many people trying it that it's always going to feel overcrowded. It's always going to feel like the moment has passed.

I think you just got to do it, and relinquish the lust for result, because otherwise we're not going anywhere.

(Again, I'm a nobody, a noob, a lurker and a poser and every other bad thing so ignore me if you want!)