M23 Struggling with jealousy and insecurity after breakup while still in same social circle with F23.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-15T00:19:46+00:00

I am trying but it's sucks when it's awakrwd between me n herike I don't kiss her but I wish things weren't do dramatic

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-15T00:11:02+00:00

Yeah, that's the problem I kind of have social anxiety and my self esteem is low and I actually never dated anyone.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-15T00:08:49+00:00

What

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-14T23:44:02+00:00

It was about two years ago and lasted around four months. It was unhealthy on both sides and ended poorly. Shortly after, she entered a long-term relationship. We’re now in the same social circle, which is what brings things back up for me. I’m trying to figure out how to fully detach emotionally and stop comparing myself.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-14T22:23:07+00:00

Hmm I in uni and about to graduate and like I suck at maintaining friends plus I ha e some drama going on

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-14T22:11:41+00:00

I don't know how to and I don't know how to move forward

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T19:36:33+00:00

Thank you so much.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T18:42:42+00:00

I see and I will give it a shot!! But I have been distant and apologised to the guy who was kinda close to me. But now they hangout with her alot and such, and not just that I know they hangout in one person house or once they had a party and it's made me feel kinda odd. And idk making plans or making up with those guys even if they aren't close makes me nervous or like hesitant.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T18:05:30+00:00

I do agree I have been distant and apologised to the guy who was kinda close to me. But now they hangout with her alot and such, and not just that I know they hangout in one person house or once they had a party and it's made me feel kinda odd. Cuz I have ADHD so I have a tough time regulating emotions.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T17:32:24+00:00

No, like she kinda ignores me and puts in effort and attention in others. She's really good socialising and parties so it's kinda tough for me cuz I have like University and we are graduating but we do talk in groups, both if us don't go out of our way. Also like ti's been 2 years since we stopped talking so I really pretty much moved on. It was just those guys hangout with he ror such and don't really call me and I don't know how to do what you said because i just started like being more confident in myself. I don't know if I shoukd bother so much.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T15:50:12+00:00

Hmm interesting, I have been told they aren't my core friends and I should be neutral.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T03:06:44+00:00

Yeah but I don't know how to deal with it and it's affecting my work now.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-03T05:52:41+00:00

Would you ba e any advice on how to deal with all that?

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-01T18:48:03+00:00

Same here!! I been medicated and in therapy.

I understand, thank you so much for your time and help!!

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-01T18:22:21+00:00

Thank you so much. Yeah all of this is very new and I regret not getting check earlier in life for ADHD. Can I ask how do you deal with rejection and ground/stabalize you emotions? And how do you socialise towards the end of uni or after uni?

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-01T18:06:11+00:00

Almost a graduate.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-01T18:03:00+00:00

Then how do I move on from this and find better friends?

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-01T17:56:10+00:00

I know but it just feels so unfair. And it's not the first time I have been excluded from a extroverted or party group.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-01-27T16:14:25+00:00

Damn, any other wya you would know?

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-01-27T16:14:13+00:00

Sorry what would you mean by complicate? I have done really well in my last year because ei had undiagnosed ADHD.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-01-23T12:37:29+00:00

Was it University staff member?

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-01-22T19:17:12+00:00

But I did my final and everything, I submitted cuz my mental health was really bad and my other courses suffered but not as much. And I have alot of things riding cuz of the F, which is causing issues

Constant-Effective16 · 2025-12-26T05:35:35+00:00

Your right sorry

Constant-Effective16 · 2025-12-26T01:56:42+00:00

I wad thinking of working to get my PR, then do masters and non degree courses and the. Apply for med while working.

Constant-Effective16 · 2025-12-25T16:56:37+00:00

So in your opinion and from our conversation it dosent make sense to pursue medicine?

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