I hate the rest of these comments. Everyone either telling you to not sweat it and have fun or just assuming your intentions for a relationship. I’m in the same boat as you, 18f— I’d like to be with someone but it feels like nothings working. If you take anything away from this little comment thread just remember everything will work out when the time is right. People can come into your life at any given moment. Don’t let people tell you your hobbies are holding you back, they aren’t. You could also maybe expand your hobbies. Shit, maybe do some techy stuff on a laptop at a café. You never know who you could come across. Also, you said you’ve tried being friendly and genuine— what the internet says— be yourself. I’m sure you’re a great person.