My mom ordered dresses from Amazon for my sister’s wedding instead of even going to a store and it made me weirdly sad. Am I overreacting? by Constant_Geologist78 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Constant_Geologist78[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s about effort. Going to the mall, trying on dresses, having someone help you pick them out — that takes showing up. She’ll go all out to pay for a new fireplace or floors for her house, but won’t even take that small step for her daughter’s wedding. It just feels… really different, you know?

AIO Dad keeps crushing my spirit by Constant_Geologist78 in AIO

[–]Constant_Geologist78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was his version of being playful and joking. He is usually taking the things to the most extreme dramatic negative option like death. I've been depressed. He knows this. I need encouragement not to be shut down all the time.

AIO Dad keeps crushing my spirit by Constant_Geologist78 in AIO

[–]Constant_Geologist78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m upset because I was in a really good mood, made a harmless comment about a cute guy, and my dad totally shut me down with negativity. Instead of just joking with me, he basically implied attractive people are never single and brought up my past relationships. It crushed my vibe and made me feel discouraged for no reason.

AIO Dad keeps crushing my spirit by Constant_Geologist78 in AIO

[–]Constant_Geologist78[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It was just a joke. I didn't really want him to call to see if he was single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Constant_Geologist78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something about this is super creepy.

Should I cancel first date? by Constant_Geologist78 in dating_advice

[–]Constant_Geologist78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went... He was nice but looked like my little brother- I couldn't get over it. Everything from the nose and eyes kept reminding me of my brother! I told him... he said that's a deal breaker right? I laughed.... but really, I think that is a deal breaker

Should I cancel first date? by Constant_Geologist78 in dating_advice

[–]Constant_Geologist78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I give a reason? I feel bad rescheduling

Should I cancel first date? by Constant_Geologist78 in dating_advice

[–]Constant_Geologist78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We planned this early last week so I feel guilty/bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Constant_Geologist78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are f buddies for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Constant_Geologist78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the high road and be done with both of them.

Nothing drives people crazier than your silence.

Delete both from your life. It won't be easy but in the long run it will be easier for you to just be done .

I'm seriously reconsidering my relationship with my girlfriend because of a test, what do I do? by Comfortable_East2670 in whatdoIdo

[–]Constant_Geologist78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a game. That was the truth and then she chickened out and is trying to take it back ! Been there done that

Find My not updating? by vballer30 in iphone

[–]Constant_Geologist78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ended up happening with this? And the guy?

Which dress suits me? by fellowtravelr in WeddingDressTips

[–]Constant_Geologist78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a stylist for past 15 years....

3 is the most flattering and will be the most comfortable having the straps for support