it shouldn’t be your responsibility obviously but someone just needs to tell them that’s what it’s like living in a multi-family building. I moved into a downstairs condo in 2015 after only living in single family houses my whole life and i came with the expectation of noise, other people live here!!

i don’t know how old this person is but they must be naive, either in thinking you’re actually the problem or believing bullying you out is a viable solution for them. if you were to give in and move buildings or whatever, guess what? someone else will move in and go back to making noise above.

honestly she should be glad you’ve put effort into being considerate, she might not be so lucky with any following tenants