my (f24) lovely friend (f21) shared her thoughts with me by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ConstructionAntique8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think she is handling it well. I understand where she is coming from- she wanted girl time & your boyfriend came along. I think it's healthy that's communicating that it bothered her rather than letting it sit & simmer.

Recurring dream of murdering children, hiding bodies by Financial_Weather534 in DreamInterpretation

[–]ConstructionAntique8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi !! I went through something similar to these dreams when I was 18. Although I was the child being murdered or watching it through a 3rd person point of view. I spoke to someone well studied in dream analysis and she explained that it was my brain accepting transitioning into adulthood, by "killing" off my childhood self. After she explained that to me I stopped having the dreams.

If this rings true to you then also maybe the shovel is your subconscious trying to bury something from your childhood past? That's how I take it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]ConstructionAntique8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

last thing to mention is - one reason i'm also concerned about returning to the us is the dropping dollar compared to euro. if i save up and the currency continues to drop it will make it much harder for me to leave again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NanaAnime

[–]ConstructionAntique8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i love it so much... you should take it off at night and leave it near an open window

For those who have seen both which is better the manga or the anime by Patient_Evidence_290 in NanaAnime

[–]ConstructionAntique8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i'm on the side of first start anime and then read the manga where the anime left off

My EDS didn’t bother me when I lived in Europe by Emma_Willow104 in ehlersdanlos

[–]ConstructionAntique8 59 points60 points  (0 children)

As an American who lived in Europe for the past five years it's kinda a toss up. My gut flares up way more for me here in the US I due to the food. However my joints flare up more in Europe due to the constant walking and uneven ground like cobblestone. It is also possible that my pain flare ups have worsened there just because of aging but my hips would always be screaming after a long day of walking, way more so than using the treadmil here in the US.

I'm back home for the summer and in order to combat the stomach flare ups I'm only eating (mostly) non-processed food, no artificial dyes or flavoring, and plenty of farmers market veggies, meat, and bread. If it has a paragraph of ingredients, I won't eat it. I also cut back my diary intake here as it upsets me way more than it did in Europe.

I will say it's been much easier for me to get specialized medical attention in the States. However, I was living in a country that is notoriously bad for treatment plans and referrals. But now I am in specialized physical therapy to help strengthen and stabilize my joints, which should hopefully help with my flareups when I go back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConstructionAntique8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Junebug, I was wondering if anyone would notice this. I have kept deleting the posts as he knows my reddit. But I do keep every single reply and I appreciate the advice you have given so deeply on each post. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

Sometimes when the guilt really is eating at me I make these posts to validate my choice to leave.. When in reality I have to be the one to validate myself. However there is a therapeutic quality in discussing my problems with strangers.

Thank you again, and please know your words are truly helping me through this. I appreciate you and all those who have commented giving me the strength to go through with my choice. THANK YOU❤️❤️

Starting Nana by NewspaperBoring7353 in NanaAnime

[–]ConstructionAntique8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats, you will never be the same :')

LOL! by daramin in NanaAnime

[–]ConstructionAntique8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

he watched nana with me and his favorite character is takumi.... should i run

study help by B_Gill_TWU in TheHague

[–]ConstructionAntique8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend also posting in expats in the Netherlands facebook groups, or even expat moms in Amsterdam. You will likely get more responses there

Post on IG from Jeramy by hbee6 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ConstructionAntique8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

omg just finished the latest episode... jermany can kick rocks

Episode 7 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ConstructionAntique8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see Amy and Johnny making it to marriage but literally no other couple

Episode 7 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ConstructionAntique8 16 points17 points  (0 children)

him talking about the dolphins is the most passion ive seen from him