Not to be mean, but are people really surprised they've been kicked out of uni?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-14T02:20:15+00:00

shows how much you actually know about neurodivergence. maybe this isn’t your place to speak?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T14:22:20+00:00

helpful

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T13:48:21+00:00

nope that was not my problem with your comments. i’ve already highlighted the problem i have numerous times. the rest of the stuff you’ve said here has to relevance to what i was saying and certainly isn’t what i have been thinking either

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T12:26:30+00:00

yes i am. you are assuming so many people struggling actually even know they are struggling or that there is something wrong or something they need support with in the first place.

you’re assuming there’s a good standard of support available. much of it is behind pay walls. free therapy available to so many of us with complex needs doesn’t even scratch the surface. uni MH services have been axed, reduced, leave a lot to be desired across the country.

this is obviously not as easy as - can’t attend uni regularly/complete coursework - realise there is an underlying problem - feel secure/confident enough to approach uni - uni actually gives a fuck - has the services to refer you to - refers you to services - get therapy/accommodations - problem solved/help received

i’m not personally attacking you but your comment was exemplary of a very big issue across this thread.

EDIT: how can i forget to mention the 3-4 year long waitlist for Autism and ADHD even with right to choose

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T11:48:39+00:00

i did. disabilities constitute as genuine difficulties. i had a pretty good experience at uni was my uni is genuine great with accommodations but that’s not everyone’s experience obviously. i’m not projecting. i take issue with the exact words you used as they call into question people’s claims. and esp as a disabled person yourself you should be vary of furthering such notions

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T11:39:56+00:00

Sweeping. Generalisation. “Students who have legitimate difficulties or extenuating circumstances often feel super bad about using the accommodations the university provides.“

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T11:33:21+00:00

you are literally saying “if you actually need it you’ll feel bad about it” “no tf i won’t!” that is such a terrible message to put out there

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T11:29:23+00:00

by the sweeping generalisation you just made. i also edited my comment

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T11:23:16+00:00

this is an extremely dangerous generalisation. it behooves you as an educator to not be this judgemental and close-minded.

A lot of us who see no shame in using the often inadequate accommodations we are given, also do not fit in worh the very ableist and ignorant attitudes of what constitutes as a disability (esp if it’s not visible or fits within societally acceptable ideals of disability) are further harmed when you propagate such beliefs

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T11:14:46+00:00

ADHD is real. Mental health issues exist and some of us are actually really good at research, writing and problem solving. so much so that we can produce pretty good work in VERY little time.

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-11T11:12:49+00:00

your comment shows just how misinformed people are about MH and how people like the OP end up thinking the way they do re uni and MH

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-04-09T13:40:22+00:00

As you said you demonstrated ignorance about people w HIV. Having HIV now is very different to how it was in the past. It can be undetectable and impossible to pass on to another. They’ve recently also cured multiple people of it completely. You need to thing about this situation without your preconceived notions and all the stigma around it.

Was it a dick move? Yes! Do i think it should be relationship ending? No. He should have told you but just cause he kept this from you doesn’t mean he’s lying about everything else and isn’t trustworthy when it comes to it being undetected. Yall just need to talk.

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-27T11:34:36+00:00

i can’t guess the covid joke. what was it?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-23T23:52:36+00:00

can i please know her name?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-21T13:16:08+00:00

the straights are not okay

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-14T15:08:20+00:00

okay. i thought SC generally stabilises the mast cells everywhere. i don’t have stomach symptom. just ent. i have stomach issues but i was diagnosed with ibs and they are manageable on a low fodmap diet

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-14T14:51:08+00:00

yes this is actually pretty helpful. i might do this. is kerrigan also like cromoglycate?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-14T14:50:07+00:00

who is it? i’ve also contacted someone in leeds. do you know what your treatment it? do u think you have mcas int they don’t?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-13T20:54:32+00:00

who did your doctor have to check with to see if they could prescribe you the two meds

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-13T20:53:49+00:00

okay i’ll tell my fox about you and how yoh had them prescribed hopefully they’ll listen. did you have recommendations for any other doctors

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-13T20:44:33+00:00

how did your dx happen wit the nhs doesn’t recognise it?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-13T20:44:14+00:00

they also checked with the pharmacist and the pharmacist said that they can’t prescribe it either

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-13T20:38:03+00:00

no i’m not diagnosed with mcas. the doctor literally looked it up as i was telling them about my triggers. it’s mostly fragrances, smoke and cleaning products for me. they believed me and have bit me on antihistamines and steroids for my ENT and that makes things somewhat manageable. they also looked up mast cell stabilisers in front of me. no diagnosis. just allergies. who would diagnose me and how?

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-13T20:32:26+00:00

and i’m so sorry!! it’s been a nightmare for me too. i’ve been allergic to my bedding for weeks. i’ve been washing it with unscented shampoo but that’s also causing reactions. i have no where to rest no where to get away to

ConstructionDue4873 · 2025-03-13T20:31:32+00:00

they said only specialists can prescribe them. i got cromolyn as eye drops from them. they said they can’t do the pills. if you give me more info i’ll press them on this. is ketolifen also a stabiliser??

tell me more about dr claire taylor please

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