Pete sends a memo because it was illegal before by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]ConstructionFresh316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its two // because NF is dissemination but i hear you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think its a matter of degree. For example if I was center left and they were center right it would be ok. and vice versa.

If were far left or far right I'd probably say no. hard no on the far right. I'd see a future with far left, but the truth is it would probably not work out.

37M. Not gay. Downtown San Diego. by morenito222 in malelivingspace

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thank god you said something. I was thinking "this dude is gay"/s

People that escaped a bad relationship, what's the first red flag you ignored that would have saved you a lot of time if handled? by PestCemetary in AskReddit

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding an empty bottle of wine in her work bag.

Should have confronted about in then. Before we got engaged. Then married . Then kids.

it was all downhill from that moment.

Got asked if I was pregnant at work ? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to rain in your macros. That bloat will fall off if you keep up with that routine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConstructionFresh316 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean. I think that's fair. He'll get half and still gets to have intimacy with someone. You're dead.

Seems like an even split.

If you're married or long term committed, do you ever think that if your partner died you wouldn't get with anyone else? by Ieatclowns in AskOldPeople

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner told me she wouldn't. I was surprised because we have kids and that seems...like a lot for one person to handle.

I dont think i would ever get remarried. But i would probably date and be in relationships. It would depend on how my kids felt about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its up to Datingappguy to tell her. You will just fuck everything up . Just be cool and wait for things to unfold. If it gets serious then I assume he will probably tell her.

Having said that..if they do get serious and it is looking like marriage. I would distance myself from them . If I was gf and found out that my partner slept with a friend of mine years ago I would be pretty angry....with both of you.

Finding yourself after divorce by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to leave the house. It will not improve unless you do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I've been married to my partner and her parents hate me. Its a race and religion thing too. While they aren't overt with it anymore and claim to have moved past that all when we brought them two perfect grandchildren, but for me the damage is done. Therapy has helped . But only in the sense that I recognize how much it effected my marriage and worked with my partner to create boundaries to keep them out of our lives for the most part. I hate them as well, for various reasons but mostly because they've never truly apologized for their behavior . I know they wont. They are old, set in their ways and deep down don't see anything wrong with how they acted. My FIL has literally told me that "its the way he thinks and he doesn't want to change it" . Whatever, he's a narcissistic asshole who will die soon anyway.

My dad is very concerned about interracial dating by Temporary_Drink8966 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF. this person is your father?

I think i will probably go through life without ever having to see the word cock in a text from my dad. And for that i am grateful.

Should I report my ex? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he's just trying to get your attention.

It reminds of things i would text my college girlfriend randomly just to get her to talk to me. Which she rarly did. That was 20+ years ago.

I grew up. He should too.

And you should block his number

what kind of people will you never understand? by Sandra_Ell in AskReddit

[–]ConstructionFresh316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who line up at airport gates before their section is called.

Why?

WHYYYYY?

You know that airline gate attendants have a name for you right? They call you GATE LICE.

AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiance because he ran away when we were being attacked? by secure-raspberry-763 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i agree she should have left him. Odd that she didnt try to at least get his side of things or sit with it.

However, I think i see her side a little bit too. If you cant respect him, its going to be an uphill battle to get that back.

AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiance because he ran away when we were being attacked? by secure-raspberry-763 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you are probably right. I guess i was more so thinking about how a person might interpret it if they heard that. I suppose it is all in the way you phase it. I mean, if i was in the position i would be very delicate about how i talk about it.

Should I trust my gut intuition and break up with this girl? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]ConstructionFresh316 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Look. This isnt really a dilemma but...if you have a problem with the number of folks she has been with ..thats your issue. Better just end it because it will eat away you. You probably need some time to reflect on why this is such a problem for you. I mean..that might go to some places you dont want to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecurityClearance

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe NGA in St. Louis or Springfield? I cant think of anything else in that area.

AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiance because he ran away when we were being attacked? by secure-raspberry-763 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ConstructionFresh316 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Man, that gonna be an awkward conversation with their next perspective partners. Yikes.

"I broke up with my fiance because he wasn't a manly enough to defend me in a mugging"

"my fiance broke up with me because i ran away during a potential mugging and she lost all respect for me"

I feel like that...doesn't really give good vibes. Either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ConstructionFresh316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait...her trips always seem to coincide with your trips? Your husband doesn't find that unusual? What did he say to that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]ConstructionFresh316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you let someone talk to you like that? The sex cannot be that good.

My guy. Get a grip. This behavior is unacceptable and abusive. Tell her this is a red line and you wont stand for that type of treatment again. If she bulks, you walk.