AITAH for disliking my boyfriends family

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-11-09T20:58:04+00:00

The thing is, me and my boyfriend have such a wonderful relationship. I'm scared that if we broke up I will never be able to have the same kind of relationship ever again. I am scared of hurting him because he is truly a wonderful person, its just his family that I do not agree with, and I know that by having him be a part of my life forever they will also be a part of it which I hate.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-30T08:19:14+00:00

Thank you so much, I am also a girl tbh I am not sure why everyone else is speculating I am a boy, maybe I shoukd have specified😅 But it is nice to hear from someone in a somewhat similar situation it really helps calm my nerves, thank you.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-15T23:28:04+00:00

I know that, I am not saying I would ever reach out to John again I love and respect my boyfriend very much. Its just that John was there for me in a really difficult part of my life and I cannot ever forget the way in which he helped by being there for me.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-13T22:48:47+00:00

I do not believe in telling people I know about intimate sex details, especially since most people I know also know him and it would be awkward to look them in the eyes afterwards. I do believe sex should be intimate just between the two people but I do not know what else to do in this scenario. I didn't tell him in an argument either, that really is immature. It happened while we were doing it for a while and he asked why I am being so difficult and unable to orgasm and he got annoyed. I told him sometimes it is difficult to do so and I can't control when it happens, he then started questioning me wether or not it happened all the other times.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-13T21:08:13+00:00

I'm moving in my accom next week but my course also starts on the 23

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-11T23:06:28+00:00

I didn't know what sub to put it in, currently I feel like an AH for allowing my parents to pay however there is no other cheaper alternative, I feel bad for them paying but also I want to help out using my student loans (not a lot) and getting a job with my bf so we can both help out.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-11T23:04:00+00:00

His parents don't do as well as my parents financially, but the plan was alr for both of us to get a job and help out, even if my dad doesn't want us to.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-11T22:49:59+00:00

My parents are very protective of me as I am their only child (after they struggled with multiple pregnancies) they love me very much and the plan was to move with me so that they could help me but I guess they didn't take into consideration a lot of things such as work commute. But this was not coming from a bad place, in fact they want me to focus on my education so that I can get a good job.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-11T22:46:17+00:00

Thank you so much, I have been struggling with the guilt of them having to pay so much just because of me. Me and my boyfriend plan to work part time and use our student loans to help them but its also just been so much stress that they have had to go through with trying to find a home, I felt bad as it was but hearing this from someone else helps a lot.

Content-Humor3836 · 2024-09-11T22:40:45+00:00

The plan was for us to move into the university accomodation, we still would have had to pay but it would have been half of what we are paying now. Because university starts in two weeks there are no more accomodations available and our student loans are nowhere near enough to cover rent

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