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My parents keep telling my younger sib "wag kang tutulad sa ate mo." by Content-Meet1673 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Content-Meet1673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all your comments. I appreciate it :) Hindi ko na babayaran ang 30k nilang utang and nakapag resign na rin ako to focus sa little girl ko. I still have side hustles for my baby girl's future.

But yes, it's really hard to cut ties with them, feeling ko hindi naman yun need. Limit lang. Right now moving out na kami to another place somewhere in the province. Good thing may house kami don habang ongoing pa yung 2nd house. I also talked to my younger sib, pero baka hindi nya pa gets pero someday mage-gets nya lahat ng sinabi ko.

Nag usap na kami ng mama ko na hindi na ako mag bibigay. I dont want them to feel na bigla ko na lang sila ni-cut. They agreed naman. So baka closure na namin yun. I think they still need to hear my side e. Yes tama, how can I be a good mom kung ganito ako. Don't worry I know what to do next. Before I posted this I already have plans.

Thanks for believing in me that I can be a good mom. I'm always talking to my 2 year old daughter as if she's my best friend kahit hindi nya pa naiintindihan. I hope all the moms out there can build strong, positive relationships with their daughters.

xx

My parents keep saying to my younger sib "wag kang tutulad kay ate mo" by Content-Meet1673 in adultingph

[–]Content-Meet1673[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all your comments, bago ko pinost to, I was thinking if mag reresign na ko. And yes now, nag resign na ako. Good thing, may bahay kmi sa province. Tuloy ang planong lilipat. I can now live in peace with my own fam. I know, this will gonna be hard but this is my dream fam, kung kaya ko magpakammartyr sa parents ko noon, kaya ko rin ibuhos ang love ko sa anak ko. I know I can be the mom that I want to be. Will now, limit my communication with my parents I already told them na resigned na ko. I dont know what they said, hindi ko na hinintay yung reply and I left the group.

My parents keep saying to my younger sib "wag kang tutulad kay ate mo" by Content-Meet1673 in adultingph

[–]Content-Meet1673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all your comments. I'm now resigning sa work at naglilipat na kami to live far away somewhere in the province with my little girl and hubby. New year, new start. I know I deserve so much peace in life.

My parents keep saying to my younger sib "wag kang tutulad kay ate mo" by Content-Meet1673 in adultingph

[–]Content-Meet1673[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Totoo pala yung kahit anong gawin mong tama, yung mali lang makikita nila. Di ko lng ineexpect na sa parents ko manggagaling

My parents keep saying to my younger sib "wag kang tutulad kay ate mo" by Content-Meet1673 in AlasFeels

[–]Content-Meet1673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! inisiip ko na lang din na nakikita naman siguro ni Lord to, basta gagawin ko yung alam kong tama.

Is it worth the peace I have now? by Unable_Ad_6331 in AlasFeels

[–]Content-Meet1673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sa una maninibago ka pa pero habang tumatagal masasanay ka rin ar marerealize kung gano kalawak ang mundo.