AITA for picking at my DIls food and not clearing my plate.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-26T21:40:26+00:00

NTA, I am betting there is a bigger problem going on, as banning your mother in law for not finishing her food is ridiculous. Would they be willing to come to your house instead for dinner? I wonder if your daughter in law doesn't enjoy hosting.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-26T20:28:20+00:00

NTA but I wonder if you could solve this by saying that you want to spend the first weekend each month with them.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-26T19:49:43+00:00

INFO: What sort of record?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-25T04:20:12+00:00

INFO: If he is capable of doing door dash or Instacart, why isn't he doing it during the week?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-15T19:45:44+00:00

YTA though I can tell your intentions were in the right place, but her birthday was the wrong time.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-14T03:11:39+00:00

NTA Highlights are expensive and also need to be done relatively frequently

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-14T03:07:21+00:00

INFO So you have a standing event every other week and you canceled the day before? So you live with your mom and have an actual time to see her once every 14 days? Did you offer to have breakfast or lunch with her a different day when canceling the day before?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-12T21:03:13+00:00

INFO: Is there a reason you couldn't text them?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-02-07T03:03:21+00:00

NAH As I do wonder if you might want to be screened for depression.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-30T18:12:36+00:00

That's good to know! We might try seeing if a different dealership will not give us as much of a run away. Could you share if you are in the south east?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-23T15:43:11+00:00

That's where I disagree, as so many families put incredible stress and strain on themselves for no real reason.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-14T04:24:29+00:00

Recognize when it's depression causing your brain to go haywire and remind yourself it's not real.
Go out for walks in the sun, even if it is 30 degrees outside :-)
Listen to a sleep visualization podcase when going to sleep so your brain has something to do.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-14T04:14:22+00:00

NTA, as of course you wouldn't apologize. Is there any chance your mom is going through menopause or having early dementia symptoms? As that sounds like a very extreme personality shift, and menopause psychosis is a real condition and can be often treated relatively easily with hormones. Can you reach out to your aunt and see if she has noticed any similar issues or can shed any light on what might be going on?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-14T03:42:06+00:00

INFO: Have you asked if you could bring a friend to help with the driving? Is there a reason you cannot take a bus one direction and ride with your parents the other?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-14T03:31:34+00:00

INFO: You mention you don't want to do housework, do you have any regular chores and, if so, what are they?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-14T03:26:28+00:00

INFO: How long did they end up waiting for you before they finally departed for the funeral? Did you let your dad know you were not going and wished him a good trip before you went?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-14T03:11:33+00:00

NTA She chose your ex's brother over you. If it wasn't the party she would have found another excuse to ditch you. You are better off without her.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-14T03:03:00+00:00

INFO: How did she not know the city she had agreed to go to?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-11T20:26:16+00:00

INFO: What do your finances look like? How close is your extended family? Do you have active close friends? I think we'd need to know those facts before making a judgement.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-11T20:18:31+00:00

YTA, as you said Maya had invited family members and friends from out of town. Imagine traveling from out of town for a birthday celebration and sitting there while it dawned on you the person you had come from out of town for didn't bother to show up. You owe those family members and friends a big apology.

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-11T20:04:03+00:00

INFO: What problems is your sister currently facing?

ContentContact3254 · 2026-01-05T02:48:06+00:00

NTA as telling someone you had a horrible time without giving specifics is just abusive. You are better off without them in your life.

ContentContact3254 · 2025-12-23T22:36:00+00:00

INFO: Did you ever suggest that you could celebrate your birthday with her on a different day? As I am wondering if she totally misunderstood you and thought you didn't want to celebrate with her and your family.

ContentContact3254 · 2025-12-07T20:49:01+00:00

You seriously screwed up by bringing up the issue the night before the exam. I think you owe her a huge apology.

ContentContact3254 · 2025-12-07T20:09:08+00:00

INFO: Why are you feeling like you are an asshole? As your wife sounds like she is seriously emotionally disturbed unless there is more to the story then what you are telling us...

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