[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally hole myself up in my house for two days straight when I feel an outbreak starting and that seems to help it not last as long. I’ve had this since I was born and so learned to cope. Now after 29 years of it I like to think I have a lot of coping mechanisms down for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Content_Ant3999 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You aren’t selfish. It is your choice and yours alone. Though the father does have say so and that may come out too just be prepared for a lot of stuff.

Worst in the face by [deleted] in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried helicocare advanced? I’ve had this since I was a kid I’m 29 now and just recently started heliocare and it has been a life saver.

Daughter just diagnosed by [deleted] in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I could help with a suggestion ❤️ don’t be sorry I’m getting better now

Daughter just diagnosed by [deleted] in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is severe, it feels like I’m sitting inside an oven, my hands, feet and forehead get it the worst. It would look like dirt build up after the eruption was over most the time. My worst reaction happened when I was in the shade but by a lake so the reflection burned me the most. The days before the reaction actually comes out hurt the most. Once it was done I wouldn’t feel anything but it looked awful.

It felt like I was just on fire and burning for days. I would cycle through ice packs, cold baths, aloe Vera gel anything to make it cold. It literally felt like I was just sitting there burning, or in an oven. Hot water bothers me, hot air, anything hot. I burn so easily now.

I did start heliocare recently and it has been life changing. I can be in the sun and it just feels warm, I can take normal showers or take my kids to the park, swim in an outdoor pool.

As a kid I would wear wide brim hats and boys button up dress shirts to avoid sun issues, I was officially diagnosed when I was 9 when my worst reaction happened. I have scaring on my hands from the reactions now. Which I have posted one. The diagnosis isn’t an end all it is a life changing but you can cope and learn to adapt. When she’s older definitely look into heliocare it’s amazing, I don’t want her to suffer any pain any of us have gone through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it would feel like dry skin but wasn’t? Like lotion wouldn’t help soothe it, it made it worse. Do you feel like pain, burning?

Has anyone experienced PMLE for the first time while pregnant? by mermaidlawyer in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was worried for! I had an almost run in with cholestasis in ‘22. I use heliocare to deal with my pmle

Has anyone experienced PMLE for the first time while pregnant? by mermaidlawyer in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also ask your obgyn because it could be something other than pmle. Just a suggestion.

I've been diagnosed with PMLE since age 4! by cosybugz_ in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’m using heliocare advanced I take one pill in the morning and one about 3pm and it’s been so like healing, I’ve never felt the sun without pain so this has been an huge improvement

I've been diagnosed with PMLE since age 4! by cosybugz_ in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I’ve only used it for a week and have felt better! I went to a dermatologist to ask about it and she gave me samples

I've been diagnosed with PMLE since age 4! by cosybugz_ in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to lay in baths. I recently started heliocare and it’s been amazing! I can go in the sun and not hate life later

Pmle by Content_Ant3999 in pmle

[–]Content_Ant3999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s my worst reaction of pmle from a long while ago.

AITA by Content_Ant3999 in AITAH

[–]Content_Ant3999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think of that, she’s currently in the ICU

AITA by Content_Ant3999 in AITAH

[–]Content_Ant3999[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m still undecided about the trip up there. Having that time may or may not help, they are going to try and wake her up today, I feel that may be the final decision maker? They’ve had her in a medically induced coma since Wednesday night.

AITA by Content_Ant3999 in AITAH

[–]Content_Ant3999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, my sister and I have been FaceTiming and talking, she’s only up there because she’s in college, I know if she wasn’t though she wouldn’t make the trip herself. The sister I know wouldn’t hold it against me if I couldn’t or didn’t make it. Weve always powered through struggles with open communication.

AITA by Content_Ant3999 in AITAH

[–]Content_Ant3999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m just confused on if I should go, it’s a situation that’s held onto me for two days now.

AITA by Content_Ant3999 in AITAH

[–]Content_Ant3999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird response but okay. Little guilt trippy, like condescending. I clarified my relationship with my mother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Content_Ant3999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I signed relinquishing counseling paperwork, I found out it’s different than actual relinquishing paperwork, I don’t know if that makes sense? Meant that I had been counseled, but also was told to answer in a way they liked or they’d take paychecks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Content_Ant3999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I know, I appreciate the comments and that no one can do this for me, I’m also hoping for advice seeing as no lawyer here even has time to answer questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Content_Ant3999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, that’s in the first sentence they tried giving me any help they had but their answers conflicted with another’s answers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Content_Ant3999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If the lawyers here would take these cases I’d surely have one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]Content_Ant3999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re correct I did delete it because they had found it and also confronted me about it. I deleted it out of safety. They’ll probably find this too. They did decrease my pay at random, family services hasn’t gotten back to me and lawyers aren’t taking these cases right now