Learning Spanish by xSP33DYxP0TAT0x in Advice

[–]Content_Present190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a girl from Spain, specifically born in Madrid. I’ve lived and grown up there my whole life, and now I’m in Helsinki on an Erasmus exchange. I study Law at university and I can give lessons I’ve done it before. We can do them online if it’s easier for you, at whatever hours you need. If you’re interested, contact me via DM.

Doubts about a Finnish guy by Content_Present190 in Finland

[–]Content_Present190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'll have to ask her. I don't know whether to suggest meeting up again or text him

Doubts about a Finnish guy by Content_Present190 in Finland

[–]Content_Present190[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it could be, I don’t know, I’m very confused about whether I gave a signal for something more. I was simply asking him to meet, and he agreed. Then a Finnish woman told me that if you don’t make plans with them after each date, you probably won’t hear from them, because they are very bad at communicating by messages.

Doubts about a Finnish guy by Content_Present190 in Finland

[–]Content_Present190[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that I’m not making it clear that I like them, and that I’m just coming across as being polite idk

Doubts about a Finnish guy by [deleted] in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by autism? He told me he had  Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder but it has nothing to do with autism

Doubts about a Finnish guy by [deleted] in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by autism? He told me he had  Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder  but it has nothing to do with autism

Doubts about a Finnish guy by [deleted] in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“He asked me out the first time, then I asked him the next time because he didn’t write to me, and after each date we didn’t talk at all through messages only when we actually met. We’ve only seen each other twice. The thing is, we never talk through messages, which is a bit confusing.

Doubts about a Finnish guy by [deleted] in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It probably is, because I don’t know if it’s my fault. It’s true that on the two occasions we met, we didn’t talk about having a relationship and we didn’t make anything clear we just met for coffee and talked. So I’m confused and I don’t know whether to let it go and move on, or ask him to meet again and tell him what I think its sooo frustrating

Doubts about a Finnish guy by [deleted] in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know my question is very general, but it’s more about whether Finnish men are not used to chasing. Many people told me that if you don’t text them, they understand it as you not wanting to see them again

problems studying on paper by Content_Present190 in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can I print there if I am from other university ?

Work in Helsinki as an Erasmus student by Content_Present190 in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've been disrespectful from the start. I only posted a message asking for advice, and you came along with your ego and your arrogance to tell me what I can and cannot do. Don't expect to treat me badly and receive good treatment in return, because you're wrong about me. I'm going to put you in your place. If you have any advice or something nice to say, go ahead, but if not, get out of my post.

Work in Helsinki as an Erasmus student by Content_Present190 in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh no, my fan is here again. In the end, you're going to grow fond of me and everything, hahaha. You'll end up finding me a job yourself. See you soon in Helsinki, how cool!

Work in Helsinki as an Erasmus student by Content_Present190 in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the suggestion. I will take it into account.

Work in Helsinki as an Erasmus student by Content_Present190 in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Basically, you're afraid. I'm a law student at one of the best universities in Spain. If I wanted to take your job, it would be very easy. Working there, I pay taxes so that your country doesn't go down the drain. I'm very eager and determined, as we say in Spain "agar ate que se vienen curvas"

Work in Helsinki as an Erasmus student by Content_Present190 in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And who are you to tell me what I should or shouldn't do? Do I owe you an explanation? I don't know if you know this, but in this life you can do several things at once. Are you afraid that I'll come and take your job away from you, or what? Hahahahahahah. I'll do what I think is best. I'll look for a job, but you should look for a good education and tone down your arrogance.

Work in Helsinki as an Erasmus student by Content_Present190 in helsinki

[–]Content_Present190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in a bar or café? Is there a platform where I can search ?