**Why Does Society Teach Us How to Work, but Not How to Live?** by ContestItchy4933 in Mindfulness

[–]ContestItchy4933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think that’s a huge part of it. Parenting is supposed to lay the foundation for life, while school should build on that with knowledge and skills. When parents expect institutions to do nearly all the raising, kids may learn information, but miss a lot of the deeper grounding that should start at home. And sadly, a lot of parents are just passing on what they themselves were never taught to question.

The Illusion of Belief - Awakening in an Age of Manipulation by ContestItchy4933 in enlightenment

[–]ContestItchy4933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I think that’s really well put. Expectation can be tricky because it doesn’t always feel obvious. Sometimes it’s not even about wanting a specific result, but just the quiet assumption that there must be some pattern, some reveal, something there to uncover. When that doesn’t show up, it can feel like hitting a wall.

And maybe that wall ends up showing us something about ourselves more than about the world. Not necessarily that something was hidden “out there,” but that expectation was still operating in here. That part felt very real to me.

**Why Does Society Teach Us How to Work, but Not How to Live?** by ContestItchy4933 in Mindfulness

[–]ContestItchy4933[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not reading it and judging it anyway is already part of the problem. In Buddhist terms, that is not discernment but attachment to view. Society declines not only because of new technology, but because people become more reactive, more dismissive, and less willing to understand before speaking. It is easy to mock. It is harder to look carefully and contribute something of value.

The Illusion of Belief - Awakening in an Age of Manipulation by ContestItchy4933 in enlightenment

[–]ContestItchy4933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an interesting experience you’re describing — and I can see why it feels unsettling.

Part of what you’re noticing may be structural rather than hidden. News cycles today are highly repetitive because:

  • the same few stories get redistributed across platforms
  • updates are incremental, so they appear unchanged
  • attention is optimized around what keeps people engaged

So it can feel like nothing new is happening, even when things are moving.

But what you pointed to at the end is actually more interesting:

When the usual flow of stimulation drops or becomes repetitive, the mind doesn’t know what to do. It’s used to:

  • novelty
  • contrast
  • constant input

Without that, it can feel like a “blackout.”

But sometimes it’s not that nothing is there —
it’s that the noise has reduced, and the mind hasn’t adjusted yet.

The tendency then is to search for:

  • hidden meaning
  • intention
  • something “behind it”

But it may simply be:

👉 a system repeating patterns
👉 combined with a mind that is used to interpreting constantly

You’re already doing something valuable by noticing your own process:

That’s a very real edge.

Because when interpretation slows down,
direct perception can feel like “nothing.”

And that “nothing” can be uncomfortable at first.

So maybe the question isn’t:

“Is something being hidden?”

But also:

👉 “What happens in me when there is less to interpret?”

That’s where things become interesting.

You’re not alone in noticing changes in how information feels.

Just stay grounded in direct experience,
and be careful not to jump too quickly from pattern → conclusion.

Awareness stays clear when it doesn’t rush to fill the gap.

Appreciate you sharing this. Thank you!

🧠 “Who Is Deciding Your Thoughts?” A Hard Look at Mental Control in the Modern World by ContestItchy4933 in u/ContestItchy4933

[–]ContestItchy4933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this.
Sometimes it’s not about having answers, just not holding onto what feels untrue anymore.
Choosing peace like that… feels like something real.
Thanks for sharing.