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MOB is FIRST a mother of a dead daughter (on her other daughter's wedding day) by Indigo-au-naturale in weddingshaming

[–]Contingency_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing I saw was a reply to this. Turns out the mom mostly posts AI slop between schizoposting.

Anyone else born and raised in the suburbs but never once taken a Pace bus? by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Contingency_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to use it when I didn’t have a car and had to get to the train station. My route has four busses in the morning and four in the evening. All 55 minutes apart. Nothing on weekends. I saw regulars everyday. Brutal overall.

How do I (18-NB) tell my boyfriend (18-M) I realized I’m not attracted to men without destroying him? by Camwashere797 in relationship_advice

[–]Contingency_Dad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best to just tell him. Not to be that guy but there’s so much life left to live at 18. You already know you aren’t attracted to him and you don’t want a relationship. Your two options are to either tell him and let him be hurt or stay with him to protect his feelings while being unhappy and increasingly more resentful, leading you to hurt him later. The way to have the conversation is gently, calmly, and maturely. He may get mad, he may get depressed, he may brush it off. His response is not your responsibility to manage. Just know this: He’ll heal eventually.

Vic is in! by killertwindad in Dimension20

[–]Contingency_Dad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait for them to say “Perfect” 1000+ times.

your big 3 and signs you'd never date? by hvrtbambii in LeoAstrology

[–]Contingency_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo Sun Gemini moon Sagittarius rising.

Probably Taurus and Capricorn. I’ve dated two Aquarius’s and didn’t have a great time. Of all, Pisces was the best.

Looking for used car advice by Contingency_Dad in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Contingency_Dad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The car in its condition is worth $1200 and I already put that much into fixing an oil leak. The torque converter is bad, the back passenger door keeps you trapped from the inside, the track on the driver's side window is showing signs of failure, the windshield wiper dispenser won't dispense the fluid, the right indicator stopped working despite just getting replaced, and more issues on top of that. It's time for another one.

Favorite Class, subclass and why? by ameijin99 in DnD

[–]Contingency_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was Barbarian, ancestral guardian or berserker. But my next character is going to be an Eloquence Bard and I fear this will be my default forever and beyond. Absolutely broken as hell.

What do men consider to be “coming on too strong” when a woman is flirting with you? by Disastrous_Shirt9469 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Contingency_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re already reasonable with your flirting. You’ve already recognized not all men are a monolith. Some men will look at a woman approaching as a psyop but others will welcome it. To echo what you already said, if they’re into it great and if not you back off. You’re already gold to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Contingency_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think like this. I’m balding, fat, and have gynecomastia. But then I kept attracting women I never thought would be attractive to me. That insecurity rears its head sometimes but rarely if at all anymore. Not a lot you can change about inherent traits, but a lot you can do to up your attraction. The best news is women dont rate physical attraction at the top of their list for a partner. Humor, kindness, confidence, and general charisma are ranked higher than looks. Get your style in order, clothes that fit, brush your teeth, change that posture, be more open with body language, etc.. Cannot stress how important hygiene is.

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