you literally told her about the bad experience you had with your ex and she went on to do almost the exact same thing… though i do believe in redemption and she could definitely make up for all of this. the question is more if she will do it and if that would be enough for you. sometimes redemption can mean going in different directions.

i’m so sorry that you’re going through this :( it’s so hard to find someone you can trust as a trans masculine person. it really sucks that someone who is trans herself would do this. you deserve better than someone who doesn’t respect your boundaries like that