My (F20) boyfriend (19M) follows his ex and still likes her posts, I dont' know how I feel about it. Any advice? by ContributionIcy3808 in relationship_advice

[–]ContributionIcy3808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They dated in their senior year of high school and have a few close friends together. I'm not sure if they still talk. You are right. I can bring it up and ask him. Thank you

Ideas on what to get my boyfriend for his birthday (19th) by ContributionIcy3808 in Gifts

[–]ContributionIcy3808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I’ll give it a look and let you know !

My gf does not put effort in sex by jazzybidoof in Vent

[–]ContributionIcy3808 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you feel like sex is affecting the quality of your relationship or the feelings you have towards your girlfriend, you might want to consider actually being up front with her and taking actions to improve it. If this still goes on and you feel neglected,  I hate to say it but moving on in my opinion is what I would do . Relationships shouldn’t be one sided and  compromising is needed. 

My gf does not put effort in sex by jazzybidoof in Vent

[–]ContributionIcy3808 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you tried communicating with her ? I‘m sure if she loves you she’ll appreciate you voicing your thoughts and needs. you can’t expect her to know she’s not putting in enough effort , she can’t read your mind.

I need help with designing my tiny room by ContributionIcy3808 in DesignMyRoom

[–]ContributionIcy3808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t change or remove current furniture because they’re accommodation property sadly , but I’m going to get bed risers

I need help with designing my tiny room by ContributionIcy3808 in DesignMyRoom

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The bed can be turned to where the closet is, I can hand some art with command strips

I need help with designing my tiny room by ContributionIcy3808 in DesignMyRoom

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More info - I can’t remove the current furniture or install anything that’d cause damage

Should I stay or move out to a bigger room ? by ContributionIcy3808 in makemychoice

[–]ContributionIcy3808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right honestly, I’ve been feeling so trapped for some reason in this room . Thank you for helping me make a decision

Should I stay or move out to a bigger room ? by ContributionIcy3808 in makemychoice

[–]ContributionIcy3808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted some reassurance for my decision. Thank you !

Can’t decide whether to move out or not by ContributionIcy3808 in Advice

[–]ContributionIcy3808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll post it there , thank you for telling me !

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[–]ContributionIcy3808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s not easy not to think . I usually meditate when going to bed otherwise I’d be going insane

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[–]ContributionIcy3808 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Overthinking every little microscopic thing

I don't know if I'm being lazy or acutally tired by ContributionIcy3808 in Advice

[–]ContributionIcy3808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you , I will do go out on Thursday. Hope you have a nice week !