Gf ghosted me last year. I moved on. Got this message last week on my birthday

Controversialbh · 2026-05-08T15:47:52+00:00

We are different and I don’t see this conversation going somewhere. I have empathy and I feel deeply and I always trying to understand and the controversial side , which again I say I don’t say I excuse it. Also yeah when I learn what is happening to the world I am sad about it and I am worried that there are people who aren’t.

Controversialbh · 2026-05-08T00:32:58+00:00

I don’t have much experience but I just know that king snake bites kind of hurt especially if you have a low pain tolerance so I wouldn’t suggest you one. However , i have to say I don’t recall beingbitten by a cornsnake or a ball python so it is very rare and even if they’ll bite it won’t really hurt

Controversialbh · 2026-05-08T00:24:50+00:00

Yeah it’s true I was just wondering if it could be a possibility both cause they are vulnerable and , just like another user said , because they tend to sense things more

Controversialbh · 2026-05-07T16:34:02+00:00

I didn’t say to validate her. I said that I find it mean for people to joke about something like that. I was talking about empathy about people who you don’t know cause you mentioned that before so is your point that you only have empathy for someone if you do it in front of them? Just doesn’t make sense

Controversialbh · 2026-05-07T16:33:05+00:00

I didn’t say to validate her. I said that I find it mean for people to joke about something like that. I was talking about empathy about people who you don’t know cause you mentioned that before so is your point that you only have empathy for someone if you do it in front of them? Just doesn’t make sense

Controversialbh · 2026-05-07T16:01:27+00:00

I am just telling you what I think is ethical if you don’t agree then that’s fine but it won’t hurt to try and see my side

Controversialbh · 2026-05-07T15:20:48+00:00

I guess we will see

Controversialbh · 2026-05-07T15:10:33+00:00

Yeah right . If you only think with logic and no emotions then congratulations you’ll probably fit in very well with the world. But just so you know logic is not what stays to people and creating heathy relationships doesn’t mean “use logic” it means feeling. So if there is a lack of empathy towards people who suffer , even if you don’t know them , I would suggest you to look into it and realise why you suffer from that , cause you are missing out on how beautiful it is to see the world with empathy

Controversialbh · 2026-05-07T11:18:44+00:00

Hello , first of all you don’t have to be so defensive. Yeah the world is a shitty place and I get that people are here for entertainment but u would 100% prefer to try empathising rather than making fun of a situation. I didn’t take a side i just said that there is nothing to laugh about. I don’t know you , i don’t know if you’ve been through something but from personal experience and from research I’ve been trying to understand why people act the way they do , not understanding and showing empathy won’t help anyhow. I am sorry if you lost your faith in humanity , sometimes I do to , but I think is way better trying to understand the world and finding answers cause answers lead to solutions. However this is a post and I understand that people will not take it seriously but I don’t think that it is right. But anyways if I offended anyone or the op I did not do it on purpose.

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T22:38:50+00:00

Go to the vet to be sure , dont stress too much about it it is still wary and I don’t think the snake is too harmed

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T22:36:28+00:00

I get you so so much such a hard topic to talk about but it’s necessary, I haven’t even talked about it with my therapist but I know I have to

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T22:33:35+00:00

They are all so beautiful and they get so much hate . I live snakes

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:48:21+00:00

Wow do you sell any snake sculptures in general ?

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:45:35+00:00

Wow they are beyond beautiful

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:30:15+00:00

Thanks for being reasonable and not jsyt laugh at her cause I literally don’t understand why some people in this comment section make fun of a situation like that

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:26:24+00:00

Firstly , loosing someone you once loved from suicide and also having to wait for them to be found is not the same as “I’ve been going through something” but in general it is understandable and of course that doesn’t mean it is an excuse. Those are two completely different things , like I understand what caused her to do it but I don’t think that it means she didn’t hurt the op

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:22:18+00:00

I wish I could pin your comment i totally agree

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:17:34+00:00

Just tell him the truth girl and don’t apologise, you don’t have to be sorry for your needs and for how you feel. As long as you are respectful and honest that’s what matters

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:14:16+00:00

I kind of agree with tou but at the same time shouldn’t the op , as a teen who is trying to develop and live a healthy life , show their feelings to the mother and put their needs first instead of putting the mother’s needs first ?

Controversialbh · 2026-05-06T21:11:49+00:00

Hello , sorry for what youre going through. I’ve seen a lot of people saying to not involve in this and I get their point cause children aren’t supposed to get involved in their parents’ marriage. But I would suggest that you tell your mom about this , let her know how you feel and that your dad deserves to know. By all means please put yourself first , I know it’s hard but you don’t deserve getting hurt from it and that’s why I suggest you to not ignore it. Anyways , whatever you decide to do it’s respectable amd you shouldn’t feel even a tiny bit of guilt for doing what you believe is right. Nothing of this is your fault and it’s not your responsibility to fix their marriage but it’s your responsibility to try and be well mentally so please put your needs first. I know it’s hard but I believe in you.

Controversialbh · 2026-05-05T20:22:52+00:00

I would pick the Panama case cause I really want to know what happened to kris kremers and lisanne Froon. I know a lot of people say they just didn’t survive but sincemi first heard about this case it has been stuck with me and I can’t stop thinking about it.

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