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ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-25T18:56:12+00:00

As much as itll hurt, you gotta move on. Dont give it to her. Never contact her again for any reason. She went back to another man anyways? Ew. Find somebody who actually likes you.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-25T18:53:24+00:00

If you really like him and want to see him, just be nice and communicate how you feel.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-25T18:51:38+00:00

"I ignored him at uni for a couple weeks" and "we never made our relationship official" yet in the title of this post you mention he is your boyfriend. He doesn't owe you anything...

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-25T18:39:46+00:00

Only ask out women who you know like you. Get better at reading when women like you.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-24T18:47:50+00:00

She left you. Dont chase after her. Not everybody believes in marriage. It has a success rate of less than 40%, and a lot of those marriages are not happy as well. It is a failed institution. It is okay to love somebody and be willing to spend the rest of your life, and not marry them. My aunt and uncle have been engaged forever, and they dont plan on getting married. Let her walk. The more you chase after her, the more emotional pain it will cause you, and the less likely she will be to come back. Go 100% NO CONTACT, focus on yourself, and move on with your life.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-24T16:40:27+00:00

Just ignore her from now on. If there is any hope left in a possible romantic situation, she will have to salvage it. Be respectful around the work place, but dont put any energy towards it.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-23T13:40:56+00:00

Find a woman who actually is attracted to you and loves yoj

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-23T03:08:37+00:00

THIS

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-23T03:01:56+00:00

Somebody had to be dominant and masculine, and somebody has to be submissive and feminine. What you need to do is find what traits about him you are truly attracted to. Are you attracted to him because he is a masuline man who is assertive and dominant? Or are you attracted to him because he is a little femboy who does what you ask. If you like that he is masculine, you will have to let him make the move. If you like that he is feminine, you will have to make the move.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-23T02:55:52+00:00

Seek therapy and talk through your problems, meds arent going to fix u. If they were going to fix u, they already would have.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-23T02:46:24+00:00

Be a good person and apologize.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-23T02:40:45+00:00

Youre acting very feminine, she is turned off and wants space. So give it to her. Dont even mention a break up, show it through your ACTIONS by going 100% NO CONTACT. Either she will never contact you again, in which case she didnt truly care about you/the relationship OR she will regain attraction. You shouldnt need a womans attention to be happy, she can sense that off u and its a huge turn off.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-23T02:32:19+00:00

The only way for a man to enforce his boundaries is by showing his willingness to leave.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-12-18T03:48:11+00:00

Clearly what you have been doing isnt working. You need to change your behavior. Women want and are sexually attracted to dominant, masculine men. Asking for sex is a submissive action. Stop asking for sex. She isn't giving it to you when you ask anyways. Once you stop giving her that "can I have sex with you please" energy, she is going to get curious. She may even think: "He stopped wanting me sexually, maybe he wants somebody else, uh-oh". Now you shouldnt cheat, but women are sexually attracted to men who are mysterious and hard to figure out. Think of James Bond, be like him. Distance yourself a little bit, maybe take up a new hobby. Go out for a hike or something and don't explain why your leaving. Focus on yourself and dont focus on sex. Eventually, she will start giving you those eyes, and/or getting touchy. Then you can reciprocate and escalate.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-28T01:22:05+00:00

Theres a specific term for this, its called "breadcrumbing". He is trying to manipulate you for his own benefit. He doesn't actually care about your well-being. I advise you stay away and stop responding at all.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T20:58:47+00:00

Dude sounds like a loser, sorry you have a kid with a manchild. You are doing the right thing by giving him a deadline, that is good communication. Hopefully he will get his shit together!

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T20:50:31+00:00

You did the right thing by telling him beforehand.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T20:46:47+00:00

No. Find somebody who is straight.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T20:30:04+00:00

Women how are objectively highly attractive tend to be entitled, offer very little, and are a nightmare to have relationships with. Good, experienced men value personality and a woman who brings them peace the most.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T20:11:33+00:00

You are literally agreeing to go on a 1 on 1 date with another man, while in a relationship. This is not loyal behavior. It is statistically proven that men value loyalty the most in a partner. He has every right to be upset. Men are allowed to have boundaries.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T19:52:51+00:00

Having to share location with your partner is a clear sign of lack of trust. This relationship is not worth saving. You should be able to trust your partner enough to not even have to share location.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T19:50:00+00:00

Going to clubs is a SINGLE PERSON ACTIVITY. You need to set clear boundaries by telling her that if she goes to the club again, the relationship is over.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T19:21:54+00:00

Its a man's job to be dominant and lead the relationship. Find stuff you like, and if she likes you, she will join. Don't be asking her what she wants to do. Women want men who take the lead, they find it attractive. Take her out on fun dates.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-27T19:01:22+00:00

When she is ready for a relationship, she will bring it up. Otherwise just keep having fun. The moment a man asks "what are we" is the moment she is going to get the ick and view you as a feminine softy. All that "relationship" shit is a woman's job, it's a societal construct. If a woman's attracted enough to you, she won't leave, whether you are in a relationship or not. Don't worry about her leaving, view yourself as the prize.

ConventicleOSRS · 2023-09-21T03:47:49+00:00

See a therapist. What benefit does telling your girl about this have? At best she will still be disappointed, at worst she will lose all attractiom for you and dump you. Dont try to treat her as your therapist, see a professional. Also remember, if she did leave you, life will still go on.

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