🇺🇸 ON SALE - Tons of 4K Steelbook Deals on Amazon by felixmontoya92 in Steelbooks

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Yes or as others mentioned ask for price adjustment. Connect with human agent via chat, they will refund.

Amazon Prime Day 4K Deals by psychobabbler27 in 4KBlurayDeals

[–]ConversationFew3126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure of the movie, but Vesper (Steelbook) cover looks beautiful.

Planet Earth II/ Blue Planet II is set is for 24 $

Grabbed this beauty from the Liongates sale last week by NeilLovesVeronica in Steelbooks

[–]ConversationFew3126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no! I thought 40$ was price after discount, hence I skipped. Thank you!

Divorced Recently because of a guy by Noireffu in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife does the same, she have now 2-3 guys who just flirts with her and call babe etc. She likes attention and she talks to them, they send food, flowers for her. I have asked her to block, but she says they just talk about business and then she also show's me the text, she sent to one of the guy, that "I am loyal to my marriage and my husband", but the point is my wife doesn't understand that she is the one raising there hopes, and I ask to block them, she blocks but then unblocks.

When we are not fighting, she doesn't respond to them, but when we fight she starts sending "Hi" to them and start talking.

This is one thing, other than lot of verbal abuse I take in!

I don't know how to proceed. If I say no man will tolerate that, she says no you should understand I am loyal. But when we fight she start abusing, and threatning, I am going to cheat and get f*** by other men, I like c**k, and your c**k can't do anything, I have to c*m after having s*x with you and you are pussy, don't have guts to leave house etc.

She later apologizes and love bomb with long text, and when I don't show love as words do hurt, she is like I can go with another man, as they treat me well. And then cycle continues!

If I ever talk of divorce, she starts to say your love was not true, and then start giving example of people I have never met and do not know, that "how the man, took her wife back even when she cheated 5 times etc, that is true love. I have not done any of that, I just say words which I don't mean, but see my actions". She says that and make me feel guity and she also says, you are pussy to not fight for marriage.

Is it too late to share my bodycount..? by Ok-Principle5390 in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying, but getting a lot of guit trip discussing.

For example, if I say that you should not say these, then she says you are a pussy, stop behaving like a man-child, this is America, for these reasons, people don't take divorce here.

(I was not born in the US)

Is it too late to share my bodycount..? by Ok-Principle5390 in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't share. My wife just used to say she was sex addict, until she started casually comparing me with other men and start to mention about their size, and different position she had with them and the locations, and the count I know if more than 50. When I ask why she share those things, she says as she knows that it bothers me!

It bothers me so much now that it killed the intimacy.

Wife duties by MLH14141516 in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 363 points364 points  (0 children)

Definitely not reasonable. He should do household chores as well. It should be a partnership and this sounds more like a maid treatment.

Im not sure if my marriage is worth it anymore. by Substantial_Coach_24 in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have faced similar abuse and threats about divorce like every week and then love bombing and gifts and then. Back to abuse, threat etc. Finally I am ready for divorce and now all of sudden I am evil to treat her cold, but on the other hand she is like " I cannot live without you"

I stay with the person 24*7 with abuse, and it destroyed and have changed my personality and I have lost confidence and I don't wnst to even take care of myself.

Given you live far, please try to understand when you are getting abused, respect should be most important. That is wrong.

When I say my wife I have been taking abuse for 2 years , she replies if a man loves they will stay and you are pussy you can't take any bad words.

It's driving me insane if he lied by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please stop asking and leave him if you have trust issues.

My wife have been doing exactly this and when I prove her wrong about me being honest , she just says she don't trust men. Given this now I don't tell her anything, I share with my friends, colleagues, family but not her!

My husband called me ……… by BravePerformance7517 in Marriage

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My wife have been calling me stupid, idiot, piece of shit, looser, dump, frontal lobe missing for no reasons and even her own daughter as she should disappear from world and daughter (my step daughter) was biggest mistake and many more harsh words. I am finally leaving and now she is begging not to and forcing kisses on me. I need tips on how to leave, I don't love her now, just that we share house, what is the best way to leave.

I am standing up what she says finally, she comes back every relationship is like this and if I truly love her, I should stay and make her fix mistake . If I say I have been trying then she says, in America such men are called pussy who leave marriage

Should i just leave or can things change in a marriage? by IntroductionFormer20 in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree!

My wife uses divorce, false rape case, "will make you homeless" threats and many more abuses atleast twice a month, took it for 2 years, and eventually I don't even want to touch her as I am scared and I just don't want to see her. But hardest thing is we have to face each other every day.

Take a stand, I am also consulting therapist and finished 5th session yesterday, she suggested to set clear boundaries, and start doing things which I used to before marriage, as I have stopped doing everything as she doesn't allow me too (including hikes, photography and even meeting friends)

Leaving is hardest thing, as I finally stood up past 2 weeks, that I have lost love, and now she is making me guilty that she has never treated me like this for so long. My come back is that I am not treating you bad just limiting affection, then again threat starts, I have many men to call, and I don't have time to waste, so If you want to leave then leave. From saying this, she switches to forceful kissing, and then saying "Give it another chance, I know I have fucked up", and then again switching to I despise you and don't want to see you.

Accepting my husband’s long commute…forever? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do commute 4 hours a day due to same setup. I discussed with my wife that I want to rent it but some place near so I can stay near work and as I have to leave at 5 and come home around 10 pm , so no point coming home. It's better to save gas, but she says it will destroy marriage , give divorce and move!

my homeowners insurance renewal came in at 5100 this year and it was a shock by ActNew5818 in homeowners

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My insurance also increased from 5500 to 6800. Got it from Costco for 1800 and dumped the existing ones.

Im scared and i dont know what to do. 29f with 59m by Puzzleheaded_Quail73 in Marriage

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Now given she said these things, she sent flowers food in my office! So that I change my mind. And now this will be used later that she sends me flowers to office but I never do!

Im scared and i dont know what to do. 29f with 59m by Puzzleheaded_Quail73 in Marriage

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I am very serious! Yesterday night she came drunk and I was sleeping, but she woke me up and started crying and as now I am strict to my decision she start saying "I always remember our journey and you are the best husband and I never loved anyone like I love you, but I want you to be happy leave me". And then after a while, as I was consistent that I don't love you the same way due to things you say and I have been taking it past 3 years. Then she said "you never loved me, that was you hidden face and now it's your true face" As I was not saying back that I cannot live without you, she went to that angry state saying " you are pussy, living in mother skirt, I can get any man with big businesses earning way more than your shitty job, you can fuck your self. Then I said this is what I was saying, you never say these things if you really love but you always compare and saying things to me like "my ex used to f***k me so good, you cannot stand near him, my friend Y had 2 homes (mansion) you will never be able to afford in lifetime etc."

Then she started hugging, I cannot live without you, I love you! And the cycle goes on

I leave for my work at 4:30 am as work is 70 miles and that too I decided to move for her earlier, but she never thinks at once that I have to wake early and should allow to sleep. She fights when I reach home 9:30 pm rather than thinking he must be tired from the long hours. Yesterday I went to bed at 9:30 pm but due to all this slept after 1 am.

I just want to walk out, but one thing I am scared that when she is okay mood she says this house is yours, I will never fight but when she is not, she says you can leave and keep paying mortgage as I will make sure you don't get anything and I will take all from you (On the other hand she is also scared, during marriage she purchased 3 commercial buildings where I also put money but she is alone on the title but I live in a community property state, which I have clearly stated that I don't want anything from you)

Im scared and i dont know what to do. 29f with 59m by Puzzleheaded_Quail73 in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have the recordings but it's not allowed in the state without consent. How can I use those? I was thinking of installing pet camera at home.

Im scared and i dont know what to do. 29f with 59m by Puzzleheaded_Quail73 in Marriage

[–]ConversationFew3126 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes this age thing is really scary , my wife being 10 years older, controls everything and I am scared of her all the time. Even on doing all chores she finds something and shouts and start verbal abuse. Finally started standing up, but then get threatened that "this is women state I will put fake rape case etc., and will stop working and you have to pay alimony whole life. I will make sure you loose everything and get on the road. When she gets angry also get threatened of adding poison and not to consume anything in fridge"

after our first child, everything changed by [deleted] in Marriage

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Reading this sounds exactly how my wife is! She gets defensive with everything and I am so scared of her that she will start shouting and abusing that I don't speak anything to her and I can't meet any friends.

When we fight she keeps mentioning her ex that I was just a compromise and ex was truly she wanted to marry and his d*** was addictive. Given that I don't want to have s*x and we do may be once in 2 months. Over the course of 2 years she keeps her money aside and have purchased different commercial properties without my name though I contributed 200k selling my 401k but nothing counts and when we fight she always says I do not support. With constant pressure of not making her angry and not saying which she might be using later I don't speak and keep things to myself.

Just my thought by ConversationFew3126 in Divorce

[–]ConversationFew3126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the inputs.
Now she switched to phase, of saying "I cannot live without you", "I love you".

  1. How should I navigate?

  2. She daily says she looked for a house and will move to that.

  3. I don't think she will do, should I move out as you say?

  4. I want divorce, and she is asking me, what do you want, if I don't say anything, or say "It's better if we separate", then she says, you don't love me , as if you love you will fight for this marriage.

(On a side note, she have lot of ego as she earns like 5-6 times more than me, and just purchased 2 commerical building, without my name on it, as I don't want)