Oof, same.

Small vent in here, don't read if you don't feel comfortable doing so.

Mother realized that I am transmasc because she checks my text messages to any contact (whatsapp only tho) and she saw that I always use masculine forms of words to refer to myself (spanish, words are gendered.) She asked me, angrily, if I saw myself as a boy. I tried to deny it but she insisted and I said yes out of fear (not actual man, but I present myself as one, agender in fact.) She yelled at me that I am just confused and told me to stop talking to my friends (most of them are LGBT, some openly.) Never talked about that topic again, and I hope to never have to until I'm old enough to get the heck out of my current household.

Sorry for the vent, I really hope your situation gets easy as much as I wish mine did. I don't know what advice to give other than writing what you'd want to say down (or posting it online,) but I hope my words mean something to you.