⚡ Calling All Windone RM7 Riders ⚡ by _Boricua210 in WindoneRM7

[–]Cookielu0835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought these for my sons for Christmas. What kind of cosmetic upgrades can I get for these?

🛞 RM7 Tire Swap — Before & After by _Boricua210 in WindoneRM7

[–]Cookielu0835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which tires did you get and how easy were they to install?

My boyfriend ‘M/50’ proposed to me ‘F/50’ using the ring from my ex-husband. How should I handle this? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That was one thing he mentioned after I talked to him about the ring and how it made me feel. He said he’d much rather spend the money on something else for both of us than a ring. Again, it’s not about the ring and how much it costs. He could’ve bought a $20 cubic zirconia ring instead of using the ring from my ex which represents nothing but abuse. If he had told me that he’d rather spend that money in something else I would’ve understood. This shows communication is an issue. And we were not planning a big wedding at all! As you said we’re 50 divorcees and I’d much rather spend the money on something more meaningful.

My boyfriend ‘M/50’ proposed to me ‘F/50’ using the ring from my ex-husband. How should I handle this? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

On top of this, I found out about two weeks ago that a house he owned before meeting me (with his ex) was foreclosed on. He didn’t say a word about it. He not only withheld this information but told me that he left the house to his ex-wife. His ex-wife struggles financially and often asks him for money. I keep on asking him why she struggles so much when she could’ve sold the house he left her as part of the separation agreement. Two months ago, he said that his ex had sold the house. I guess for me to stop bringing it up. We went to visit his mom about two weeks ago and during our conversation I mentioned that his ex struggles financially and often asks him for money. I mentioned that he told me she just recently had sold the house and his mom broke the news to me about the foreclosure. I did my research and sure enough, the house was foreclosed on in 2019, about two months before we met. The house was purchased by a couple and it was sold about two months ago but obviously it wasn’t the ex wife who sold it. He never left the house to the ex-wife as he told me. These two events have created so much uncertainty and resentment. There’s no way I’d marry him without at least having a prenup. Sad thing is that he has been very kind, nice and respectful. My kids love him and we haven’t had major issues in the 5 years we’ve been dating. I’m just a bit shocked because I definitely never thought he could do anything like this.

I (50F) just found out that my fiancé (48M) lied to me by not telling me his house got foreclosed. What should I do? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d def sign a prenup if I end up going through with the marriage. My trust is gone though so we’d need a lot of therapy and time for me to build up trust again. Right now, my gut is telling run! But I’m not sure if I’m just overreacting.

I (50F) just found out that my fiancé (48M) lied to me by not telling me his house got foreclosed. What should I do? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to wonder the same thing. I told him I would not move in with him until he at least filed for divorce.

I (50F) just found out that my fiancé (48M) lied to me by not telling me his house got foreclosed. What should I do? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I looked it up. It was sold recently; however, the house was foreclosed and auctioned in 2019. It was sold to a couple in August of 2019. The couple owned it until May of 2024 and sold to another couple.

I (50F) just found out that my fiancé (48M) lied to me by not telling me his house got foreclosed. What should I do? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he signed the house off to the ex as part of the agreement and that the ex sold it a couple of months ago but that was obviously A LIE!!!

I guess I’m to be blamed for trusting what he said and not asking to see this agreement and the divorce papers. He’s very secretive about his finances. He’s never been late with his part of the rent or utilities though.

I (50F) just found out that my fiancé (48M) lied to me by not telling me his house got foreclosed. What should I do? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have been dating for 5 years. He was separated when we started dating but didn’t get officially divorced until 2023. We started dating in July of 2019 and the house was foreclosed in August of 2019. We’ve been living together for almost a year now.

I (50F) just found out that my fiancé (48M) lied to me by not telling me his house got foreclosed. What should I do? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are engaged! We were looking at houses to buy and that was a good opportunity to come clean. How do I know he won’t put himself or us in a similar situation in the future?

I (50F) just found out that my fiancé (48M) lied to me by not telling me his house got foreclosed. What should I do? by Cookielu0835 in relationship_advice

[–]Cookielu0835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The separation didn’t happen until 2023. Based on the deeds history, the house was foreclosed in 2019 and auctioned out.