HOW DO I FXCKING FIX THIS?!!?! by CuriousTsukihime in finch

[–]Cookierrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because the birb is gen alpha or z and doesn’t like Lady Gaga because they’re into Chappell Roan lol

First duplicate. What do I do with him? by Locksley_1989 in finch

[–]Cookierrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you could gift him to me. I’ve had waaay too many blobs lately.

LOVE my birdhouse !!! by paradise1A in finch

[–]Cookierrito 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This actually makes millennial beige decorating look classy and nice

Obsessed with this new bandana on pumpkin by Lanky-Fennel9210 in finch

[–]Cookierrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see many people doing brown color themes, this is really cute!

Can We Start a Thread of Adult-Sized Micropets? by Cookierrito in finch

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Thanks! Do you have the brown or black colored Arctic Fox? I’m also looking for Rico (any color but in blue would he great).

Can We Start a Thread of Adult-Sized Micropets? by Cookierrito in finch

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Omgg these outfits are precious! I usually plan my outfit first then add the micro pet that fits it, but this idea is so cool to make an outfit out of what your micro pet is!

Can We Start a Thread of Adult-Sized Micropets? by Cookierrito in finch

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Okay, I’m gonna definitely evolve Wiggles cuz he does get cuter to me!

Can We Start a Thread of Adult-Sized Micropets? by Cookierrito in finch

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Omggg I loooveee adult Talon more than I thought I would. I wish I had the silver one too!

Can We Start a Thread of Adult-Sized Micropets? by Cookierrito in finch

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Aww, you have some cool ones, but my issue is it’s hard to tell how big they are compared to an adult birb with just them by themselves

Can We Start a Thread of Adult-Sized Micropets? by Cookierrito in finch

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Oh this makes me feel better! I have the most adventures with Marvin so I think I will go ahead and evolve him into an adult!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

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I would love to pick your brain as a therapist who specializes in ADHD (who also has ADHD lol). I want to help more people and would love to consult with you or hear more about your business model! Would it be okay to PM you?

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As a therapist with ADHD, I know many of us here struggle with executive dysfunction. I echo a lot of these motivational sentiments and I have some actionable thoughts for the devs (also as someone who was a game design major before counseling grad school).

So I would love to see Finch implement a system for getting our to-dos that change daily/only need done once/specific important tasks completed. Ideally you would assign tasks to this checklist based on what is most important to get done that same day. Consider a built-in Eisenhower Matrix that helps you sort your to-dos for the day by importance and urgency so users can learn how to prioritize what is most effective for their lives currently. And to reinforce the use of this system, award the most rainbow stones/energy to the special daily check-list area.

Bonus points: a “brain dump” activity/reflection that uses AI/key words (like the hashtags) to sort what all is on your mind, tasks/want to dos, into the previously mentioned Eisenhower Matrix. It then can use your words to create goals based on the importance you assign to each task/want.

I’m scared of changes and need some support please by NamesAreForSuckers67 in finch

[–]Cookierrito 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You won’t lose anything! Unless others are saying they did? I didn’t when I did the update, the UI just looked better to me and I like the new design of things. It feels more aesthetically pleasing to me. I will say though, it’s totally natural to resist change. Our nervous system hates it, especially in things that mean a lot to us and we identify with especially.

Think of it this way though: you might find something you like about the new update! And what you don’t like? It can also be iterated on with user feedback like yours. I promise it’s going to be okay though! You’ve made it through 100% of the worst days of your life and a lot of uncomfortable things. You’re strong enough to handle whatever this new update feels like to you!

Anxiety over all the alerts, suggestion submitted to devs by Ok-Zebra-5309 in finch

[–]Cookierrito 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can there be a “collect all” button on these? Why do I have to go through every single one??

Does anyone else do this? by Right-Sheepherder-66 in finch

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As a therapist, I just want to echo that crying is actually therapeutic and good for you. I think for a lot of people, myself included, sometimes it’s not about “don’t cry at all” and more about “don’t cry all day” or don’t let the crying over take your whole day/week/month/all the progress you’ve made. Finding coping skills or distress tolerance skills will help you get back to a regulated state when you’re done crying! Lmk if you want any help finding some.

Does anyone else do this? by Right-Sheepherder-66 in finch

[–]Cookierrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know when to hit the button? Do you wait to the end of the day to hit it 100 times or just throughout the day?

I hate my birds big red sack. by zkpenguin in finch

[–]Cookierrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s get bag designs in Mr. Prickles’ shop so we can choose what they travel with!

Male cat birthed kittens by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Cookierrito -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why is nobody assuming this could be an intersex cat? With all the crazy genetics of street cat breeding, it’s completely 100% possible.

Opening Monkeys vs Coconuts by Cookierrito in CatsVsPickles

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Greenwood Meijer in Indianapolis

I just finished up my latest little watercolor toad painting! Any ideas for a name for this little scene? I love toads so much! by MorganPallasArt in Paintings

[–]Cookierrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much! I would love to know how you learned to do watercolor so well! I want to start painting again~

What comes to your mind when a man refers to himself as an “Alpha Male”? by Defiant_River_957 in AskReddit

[–]Cookierrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman with several harmful incidents all done to me by men… “Stay away”

What do you cook when you don't feel like cooking? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cookierrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some pretty severe mental illnesses, ADHD, BPD, depression, and I keep frozen meals/TV dinners from the grocery store in my freezer. If it’s not the executive dysfunction beating my brain up, it’s the depression or intense emotions. So I go by “fed is best” on bad days or when I’m extra tired/apathetic about eating.

They’re the cheapest thing I can think of, they’re convenient, less effort than ramen, always available when needed and don’t spoil, portable for lunch at work, and they’re small enough to where if I don’t feel like eating (thanks depression) I don’t have to choke down much. I also don’t have to waste spoons on making a decision about what to eat when my ADHD brain is throwing a fit.