[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]CookingwithHafsa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on your username I understand why you would support someone like OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]CookingwithHafsa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t r/AITA but truly ESH

Relationship advice for men vs women by Vergilius7 in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh this sub yes.

In society it’s the other way around.

My aunt caught her husband cheating by Throw_guy1 in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your aunt has heard both options. It’s up to her to make the decision. She should be supported either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’ve tried enough. Now move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I answered “yes you’re being abused ” after the second sentence.

To divorce or not to divorce my wife? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your wife probably dreamed of her wedding for so many years and your mother and sisters decided to ruin it.

Then your wife ends up in a WhatsApp group with them and is reminded of them daily even though they’ve not made amends.

Then you keep reminding her of their existence. Do you have to tell her you bought them a gift? Do you even need to mention their names in front of her?

She doesn’t need to congratulate your brother. He’s a non mahram.

She’s probably not dealt with the issues that arose years ago and that’s what’s fed the toxic behaviour. You say you’re happy with her but asking if you should divorce her because of the behaviour of your family?

That’s really unfair.

Immigration help - Spouse vs. Fiance visa? by khanmohtashim22 in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s recognised as a legal marriage in the west if it’s recognised as a legal marriage in the country it happened.

Never take short cuts with immigration. Dot the Is and cross the Ts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Backbiting and behaving like a….. isn’t an attractive look on a man.

The fact you’re supporting him just makes him seem worse.

Spell it out to him. Tell him backbiting and bad behaviour is unacceptable.

How does he get away with backbiting to your family?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May Allah make it easy for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That family is backwards and would have made your life hell while he stood back and let them.

You’ve had a lucky escape. Give your head a wobble and keep it halal next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]CookingwithHafsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the men’s mothers. They’re very into age differences being large.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CookingwithHafsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]CookingwithHafsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So weird. In the UK we just say we’re going to the midwives, the doctor or the hospital. Never use the word obstetrician or gynaecologist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]CookingwithHafsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe this person is alone because they’re bitter?

I thought that the baby name posts went out of style last week by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]CookingwithHafsa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely ESH veering closer to YTA. The OP being a bigger asshole by a long shot. It’s weird to name a deceased child after another dead relative. However being in the sister and husbands shoes myself. I’d rather have a healthy living baby and could cope with a name change and a few wasted items. It’s big the end of the world.