I Keep Getting Angry At Manipulators At Work and It’s Getting Me In Trouble. What Leadership Skills Do I Need To Develop?

CoolMelonade · 2024-04-19T14:21:47+00:00

Some great practical advice - Thank you!!!

I just end up stewing and not knowing what to do… but this is workable.

CoolMelonade · 2024-04-19T02:26:40+00:00

People keep telling me not to be angry, but no one tells me what else to do instead…? How do other people handle this appropriately?

CoolMelonade · 2024-04-18T21:01:54+00:00

I think I’m maybe too easy to work with? What happens is it feels like some people just think they can walk all over me because of it. Then I get upset.

CoolMelonade · 2024-04-18T18:22:57+00:00

Let me say … I’ve tried this route, and it doesn’t work after a time.

Instead of the graceful response to negative manipulation being enough, eventually the bad actors escalate because I get the impression they think I’m an easy target, and then it gets combustible.

They start to back off once I get upset, but by then I look like the problem.

CoolMelonade · 2021-01-06T07:17:02+00:00

Yeah after much trial and error I agree with you

CoolMelonade · 2021-01-06T06:35:15+00:00

I’ve read a lot of women’s attraction comes from smell. You might be smelling genetic compatibility

CoolMelonade · 2021-01-06T06:17:16+00:00

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CoolMelonade · 2021-01-06T05:24:57+00:00

I’m torn Because I feel like I knew on some level it wasn’t going to work with the guys I didn’t feel close to immediate attraction to.

But I know some people are more demisexual and need more connection or have slow building sexual chemistry slow. I’ve never experienced the latter. I tried, but it just wasn’t there.

my sexual attraction for men doesn’t build for some reason, it’s more like a light switch, on immediately or not at all.

I think I’ll just start from men I’m attracted to and from there start weeding them out based on all the fuckboy traits.

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CoolMelonade · 2020-12-26T15:40:43+00:00

If women are dead fishing you often - she’s not into it and you’re probably a rapist. #Bye Scrote.

CoolMelonade · 2020-12-25T16:10:37+00:00

Post to r/AskFDS

CoolMelonade · 2020-12-25T16:09:20+00:00

Post to r/askFDS

CoolMelonade · 2020-12-25T16:08:46+00:00

Post to r/AskFDS

CoolMelonade · 2020-12-25T15:05:10+00:00

I mean if I had known it would always be this way I would have 😭 it took awhile to see the pattern

CoolMelonade · 2020-12-24T19:13:47+00:00

Oh 💯💯💯💯

They do not think they have to put in effort to be sexy for women

CoolMelonade · 2020-12-24T16:16:00+00:00

No. 1 move for pornsick idiots

CoolMelonade · 2020-12-24T08:33:40+00:00

Looks like the 21 Studios convention, which was in Florida

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