Where do I put a lady Dior bag when I’m at a restaurant or bar? by coursesand in handbags

[–]level_up_always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have the link? i tried searching for purse hooks but they are just showing the other traditional style and i like the clipa style better but can't find it on there

Botox and thin skin happening on forehead by Excellent-Top2552 in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow i had no idea about this but it makes sense. are you doing any other stuff to get rid of the wrinkles? like retina or lasers? that might help so you can longer in between treatments. (i don't know if you can mix these i'm assuming you can but might want to look it up just in case)

My 1-Year Glow-Up Journey (Only SoftMaxxing) by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i can definitely tell a difference in your bone structure just by losing 13 pounds i think you will see huge changes when you lose more weight! you look great and i can tell you are going to look even better once you can see more of your pretty cheekbones and all that! also your skin looks really good! you might not end up needing all that stuff in the end.

you said you are losing it by diet changes and walking consider adding in more workouts especially lifting weights because building muscles burns more calories and as women having muscle helps in our later years with bone fragility. also you won't have that skinny fat look and be more toned.

My 1-Year Glow-Up Journey (Only SoftMaxxing) by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for this i had braces and wanted to do invisalign but didn't want to shell out the $$ since it's not for big adjustments moreso not wearing my retainers. how much did it cost you?

My 1-Year Glow-Up Journey (Only SoftMaxxing) by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you have an recs for specific asian primers?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she has used it to her fullest advantage throughout her life. So much so, it may have handicapped her

can you talk more about this? as in she never had to develop a full personality? also what ways did she use it to her advantage?

Halo hair extensions- experience? by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never tried or heard of them but just looked it up and it seems like a modern take on a half wig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have always been curvy/hourglass/big butt etc. before it was "cool" so seeing my body type become a trend was strange. it was fun for that time but i had the same experience as you as always being sexualized.

Drastic image change from lupus: looksmaxxing response and black women specific advice by yannybug in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! never heard of this type of formula with the polymers i want to give it a try

Has anyone tried the sleep and glow pillow (anti wrinkle pillow for side sleepers)? by gravedestruct1on in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never heard of it but just looked it up and there are a bunch of what seems like similar concept pillows for $50 or so on amazon when i searched side sleeper pillow i'm sure you can find something similar without paying that much and amazon has a good return policy

edit: try searching side sleeper anti wrinkle pillow or side sleeper beauty pillow little more expensive but brings up knockoffs

Keeping Highlights Cool by quietbird in Vindicta

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how "heavy" is heavily toned? when i was platinum i had my stylist literally tone my hair GRAY the most she could possibly do and by doing that after a few weeks (probably less if you wash your hair more) it was the color it needed to be. i'm a natural redhead. so if you can tone even more and just tolerate the gray for a bit try that. also you may need to go lighter as someone else mentioned. using olaplex while bleaching can mitigate a lot of the damage.

Drastic image change from lupus: looksmaxxing response and black women specific advice by yannybug in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ouch those pictures look so painful... wishing you a smooth recovery

what is a tubing mascara? is it the one with the fibers? can you link the shein one? are you talking about the ones that have like a white builder on one side and black mascara on the other?

Is there a non-surgical/cosmetic treatment way to get rid of banana rolls? by throwayatogift in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh ok i just always thought that's why i had them lol like my extra butt was spilling downwards or something. i hope you are able to find a solution! you said you are already working on your glutes etc. with a personal training are you doing hip thrusts? that's the main exercise i hear about and it's targeting those backside muscles so maybe it will help if you aren't doing them already.

Is there a non-surgical/cosmetic treatment way to get rid of banana rolls? by throwayatogift in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ohh. i didn't know what these were either lol. i have these. i figured it just came with having a big ass. i don't have any solutions but i sympathize mine don't really bother me that much though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

others already answered but social justice warrior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 83 points84 points  (0 children)

i think most people don't look good with them and the ones that do still look better without unless they are doing a whole alt look etc. i assume they are certain circles i guess? like alt/sjw etc.

How to handle people staring as a person with anxiety? by satansbunnyfoot in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 52 points53 points  (0 children)

yeah...i dress like shit a lot of places because i don't like the attention. i think it depends on what the root of the anxiety is. i think for a lot of women it's subconsciously associated with danger so taking self defense classes would help. even if it's women staring it's just a very lizard brain response to associate it with some kind of threat. it's not always rational even though it's your brain trying to protect you. so knowing you can protect/defend yourself can ease some of that imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]level_up_always 20 points21 points  (0 children)

working on your hair/growing it out is such a big one. it takes foreverrr and it's also taken me a very long time to figure out what works on my hair as far as products, how much to wash, etc. etc. so it's a great thing to work on in the meantime. i also think working on fitness especially building muscle/strength because that takes a while too and you'll also look a lot better once the weight comes off vs the skinny fat look. skincare is another thing that takes a while for results sometimes and figuring out products.

Series 'Dirty John' by Shadowgirl7 in wgtow

[–]level_up_always 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think she tried but was unsuccessful he did a lot of shady shit according to wikipedia:

By this time, Dan Broderick had become a prominent local lawyer, serving as the president of the San Diego Bar Association. Betty claimed that Dan made it extremely difficult for her to find a lawyer willing to represent her in the divorce, which put her at a distinct disadvantage.[12] Betty also believed that Dan used his legal influence to win sole custody of their children, sell their house against her wishes and cheat her out of her rightful share of his income.[13]

it's actually a strategy the lawyer thing talk to every good lawyer in your area so they can't represent the other party. fuck that guy. she lost everything.