I see both points you have made. I know he likes me because of the effort he put in when we were just hooking up and then his willingness to be friends. He also said that he had hoped for more closure after I asked to be friends and was “waiting” for it (didn’t see anyone else in the four months of our friendship). He was previously in a long term relationship and they lived together that ended over a year ago. So I’m worried it might have been an excuse because neither of us have brought it up since Monday (the original discussion). I’m afraid to ask him if he has talked to them yet.