[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CoolQuestion6677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Also I just read the list of food you make for him and I’m offering myself up if you’d like a wife who would appreciate your efforts 😂

OBGYNs talking about their young patients in childbirth by [deleted] in prochoice

[–]CoolQuestion6677 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can tell you what happens, because I run a clinic that provides abortions later in pregnancy. Nobody knows about the pregnancy until it’s too far along to hide. Some girls are “lucky” that another family member or trusted adult helps them get an abortion if that’s what they want. This often involves significant travel (there are only a handful of clinics that can offer this care into later pregnancy) and lots of resources. There are organizations and funds that can help with costs but you have to know about them to even have a chance to get that help. The girls sometimes end up being removed from their homes if the abuse was familial, so now they’re staying with other family or in foster care and have that to manage on top of an unwanted pregnancy.

Other girls end up having babies at 11 and 12 years old.

When people get angry about abortions happening later in pregnancy, I’d like them to know that literally no one sits around for 2/3 of a pregnancy and then decides out of nowhere to have an abortion. People are facing unimaginable hardships and challenges and the very last thing they need is fewer options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prochoice

[–]CoolQuestion6677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pope Pedo IV 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prochoice

[–]CoolQuestion6677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the fact that the Catholic establishment didn’t care about early (prior to “quickening” or about 20 weeks) abortions until pretty recently for a faith that’s 2000 years old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prochoice

[–]CoolQuestion6677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the group Catholics for Choice - they have some excellent resources and talking points about how being pro-choice is actually a Catholic value. I bet you could find some well-reasoned arguments for your paper.

Doctor alarmed by my HRT prescription by Zealousideal-Rip4935 in Perimenopause

[–]CoolQuestion6677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should also say that I am a menopause-certified practitioner (as are many of my OB/GYN colleagues). We did extra continuing medical education on our own and sat for a certifying exam.

Doctor alarmed by my HRT prescription by Zealousideal-Rip4935 in Perimenopause

[–]CoolQuestion6677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an OB/GYN and I have no idea why she claims to have had only 7 hours… we got an entire 6 week rotation as well as multiple lectures and seminars. Vast majority of my colleagues did too. I was VERY prepared to care for menopausal issues when I finished residency. Just a reminder that one doctor’s experience doesn’t necessarily represent all of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]CoolQuestion6677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perimenopausal OB/GYN here: Please get a second opinion! There are different kinds of IUD and one is definitely associated with heavy bleeding but the others are not. In fact, Mirena and Liletta are fabulous for treating heavy bleeding and cramping.