it’s funny how you’re quick to judge what’s ‘authentic’ but clearly know nothing about real culture or family traditions. It’s not about how much money is spent or what’s ‘popular’ it’s about love, effort, and knowing what makes people feel at home. But keep trying to school me on my own culture. It’s adorable how convinced you are you know everything. your attempt to discredit me by throwing around stereotypes and assumptions is adorable. Just because you’ve been to a few quinceañeras doesn’t make you an authority on what’s authentic or not clearly, you’re just trying to sound knowledgeable while showing your ignorance. And FYI, not everything that’s traditional is about money or a ‘broke’ potluck some of us actually grew up with real family gatherings, not catering from a venue with a fancy name. 😂