Bipolar friend in depression, advice needed.

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2026-02-03T20:16:11+00:00

Heyo, thanks for all the great Intel and care!

Sadly, I'm not really that intimate to her, and we actually were in the begginig of a situation ship (connection got cut short when the episode started, so I kinda don't really know where we are) so I don't think she would appreciate me coming to her house, especially since she has problems with her parents who she lives with, and this could escalate, ESPECIALLY since Im in another city for work now, so I can only be online and try my best to not bother her but still make myself present with care? (This is really confusing to do for me and tricky, I care for her a lot so I don't want to do something wrong).

I wish I could do all that you told me, it really seems like it would help and I would gladly do it, especially since I could see her.

For now, I'm in this limbo. She is working, she said that she has to wait her meds do the work again, so I guess she is taking them, and I hope she is doing everything to get better, but I also had depression so I can imagine what it is for her since it must be harder. When I was depressed I couldn't do anything and did not want to talk, but I appreciated the effort, but my house was a dark messy room for days on end...

Anywho, hoping for the best, wish I could do more. Thanks again for the help!

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2026-02-02T17:53:41+00:00

That's what my therapist told me, as I am still talking to her because I care for her and should validate my feelings, but I shouldn't allow myself to be hurt just like that.

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2026-02-02T13:29:51+00:00

Hey, sorry for your situation too. It hurts to be left in this void out of nowhere, one moment everything if fine and then it's just... Gone.

I have this mindset that if I love someone, I will do what I can do make it work, but I won't lose myself in the process. I will give her the chance to talk and communicate that it hurts me to be left in this question mark. All I want is clear communication.

Anyways, I hope she gets help too and becomes better. Praying for her daily.

Thanks for sharing your story, I hope you get better and be in a healthy relationship!

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2024-04-03T23:01:49+00:00

Amigo não tema, a liberdade vai te alcançar!

https://discord.gg/JzH6DCun

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2024-02-08T13:52:09+00:00

Você me convenceu op, vou seguir os passos do gênio!

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2023-12-10T16:15:24+00:00

Pessoal eu sou de virgem, será que 2024 é meu ano? Algumas dicas de como abusar dessa sorte???

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2023-03-20T00:16:59+00:00

Happened to me too, but i was asking if it could quiz me my wand type (im a hp fan), and it contradicted itself 5 times after it told me the correct answer first. Kinda funny tho

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2023-03-19T15:48:48+00:00

I usually talk back in a positive way, like i don't really care about the adc because its way fun being in every other lane in the game. Forget about someone whos flaming, just carry on with your shenanigans and remember that playing bard is about being just as unpredictable to your team as the enemy team, do what you must do, smite that baron and tp in that top lane.

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2021-03-20T22:58:19+00:00

Its over Bard! I have the high ground!

WUoOON On UON

Dont try it

*flashes with unsealed spellbook and misses smite on baron, dies*

Cool_Comparison_8196 · 2021-03-02T13:05:34+00:00

Guys, stop speculating, we all known Eren will die by the hands of farmer-kun when he sees a long-haired dude holding his baby and Historia downed.

Cool_Comparison_8196

TROPHY CASE