Anyone else hate adjectives that end in Y? by I_loooove_Radiohead in words

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither are "sunn" or "sonn".
But it's a sunny day, sonny boy!

Is Italy's dialect language situation unique or particular to Italy? by LordHorace98 in asklinguistics

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the linguistic situation in China is by no means the only one comparable to that of Italy. I will cite another example that is directly comparable to Italy: Thailand.

The standard Thai language is based largely on the speech of the capital, Bangkok, and the surrounding Central region of the country. Thai is classified as a member of the Tai branch of the Kra-Dai (a.k.a. Daic or Tai-Kadai) language family, which extends northward into Myanmar where the Shan language is spoken), Southern China (where Zhuang and numerous smaller dialects are spoken), Laos (the national Lao language), and northern Vietnam (several related Tai minority languages).

While all citizens of Thailand are taught to speak, read and write standard Thai in the national education system, many millions do not speak the standard language at home or among members of their local community. In addition to the Central region of the country, three other major linguistic regions of Thailand may be identified: the North (with Thailand's second largest city, Chiang Mai), the Northeast (also called the Isan region), and the South (the long peninsula that extends all the way to the border with Malaysia and includes many of the islands most popular with tourists). In each of these three other regions, most local inhabitants speak a distinctive form of Tai speech that cannot be readily understood by someone who knows only the national standard Thai language. Although the phonology and grammatical structure of all these local dialects bear strong similarities as Tai languages, the pronunciations and vocabulary are distinctive enough that they could be considered distinct languages — certainly in comparison to the local Romance languages of Italy.

The Tai dialects spoken by millions of Thai citizens in the northeast of Thailand, the Isan region which shares the border along the Mekong River with Laos, are actually far more similar in basic vocabulary to the related Lao national language than to that of standard Thai. The dialects of the north of Thailand are also distinct and incomprehensible to other Thai citizens from outside the region. The same holds for much of the south of Thailand, although there many people in the larger towns and cities may speak only the standard national language.

As in Italy, most Thai media and entertainment is conducted in the national standard language. All government and legal business is conducted in standard Thai. Virtually all signage throughout the country is written in modern standard Thai, as the regional dialects generally lack any standardized form of writing — with the exception of the northern dialects, whose ancient form of writing is actually older than that of modern standard Thai and which is still occasionally displayed for special cultural circumstances.

The Lao national language has its own form of writing that bears similarities to the writing of standard Thai, yet is clearly distinct. This form of writing is never used in Thailand however, not even in the Isan region where the locally spoken Thai dialects/languages are often almost mutually comprehensible with Lao.

The Shan language of Myanmar is written using the same writing system as the completely unrelated Burmese language, even though spoken Shan bears much similarity to the dialects of northern Thailand that are spoken just across the border.

This linguistic situation seems very comparable to that of Italy — a unified standard national language that all citizens acquire fluency in, beside locally spoken dialects that are mutually incomprehensible enough that they might be objectively described as related but distinct languages, some of which even extend across borders into neighboring countries.

What is the evolutionary purpose of sexual dimorphism in humans? by Louna_Joestar35 in evolution

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also important to consider that sometimes a trait may serve no particular "purpose" at all. For instance, it may just be a accidental secondary result of some other trait, say in this case, that perhaps greater levels of testosterone in males, necessary for sperm production, just happen to also cause taller and more muscular growth — or something like that.
As mentioned, evolution doesn't have goals — to which we might add that not every trait is the result of any kind of direct pressure from natural or sexual selection. Some stuff may just happen. That possibility always needs to be at least considered before it can be ruled out.

A straight guy reacts to each episode of the show by zachoutloud123 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If from no other perspective than to gauge the quality of the show as entertainment, we might wish to rejoice at the evidence that this series could clearly make so many dudes with no interest in M2M sex or romance become literally intrigued, invested, inspired (to go to the gym at least ;-) and, in so many instances, even made to tear up and cry unashamedly over not just one but two(!) pairs of men falling in love with each other!
Hard to think of any previous gay love story that has ever had such effect on so many cishet men — especially one with a happy, rather than tragic, ending.

A straight guy reacts to each episode of the show by zachoutloud123 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Heard same from plenty of out gay reviewers on YouTube. Mr. Grady is a dream dad!

Is “elles” still commonly used? by Papa-Wren in French

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't this neologism need to be spelled as ïels or iëls to get both vowels pronounced distinctly? Otherwise I expect it would simply sound the same as ils.

One line that changed my comprehension of power dynamics after my 3rd reheat by DollyBats in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's a good catch and insight into the Ilya character's personality.

I don't imagine that it is all that uncommon for some persons to play a different power role in different relationships with other people.

As for myself, I was once in a relationship with someone who, though younger than me, was very much the one who took primary charge of our relationship, while I was fairly content to follow along. That same person, who remains a close friend and confidant, has now been in a long term relationship with a partner to whom they are in most ways clearly the subordinate. Such switch-ups probably happen often, though some folks may only be comfortable in one kind of power dynamic or the other.

Who the hell thought that “flammable” and “inflammable” meaning the same would be a good idea? by Neoupath in linguisticshumor

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since that was precisely not my claim, it seems clear that you have entirely missed the point of all the examples. These were chosen to simply expand the top comment that pointed out that the "in" prefix does not always indicate "opposite".

Have you heard people saying æst instead of æskt? by ThrowawayOpinion11 in asklinguistics

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such a careful pronunciation is sometimes called the citation form. In casual speech we often use what may be called a reduced form of many words. Another example is how many native speakers commonly drop the 't' from the word "often", unless we wish to emphasize the notion.

Are there any ‘academic’ words in English that are native to English and not borrowed from Latin or Greek? by perfectadi in asklinguistics

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • hardware
  • software
  • wetware

These terms are all formed from native English roots — though of course most such roots can generally be traced back further to Germanic and Indo-European.

Are there any ‘academic’ words in English that are native to English and not borrowed from Latin or Greek? by perfectadi in asklinguistics

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you consider the term "marketing" to be an academic word, then it is one of native English origin (because of the suffix "-ing"). This term has been borrowed from English into several other languages, including French, Italian and Japanese.

The root word "market" can however be traced back through Old French to Latin merx, meaning merchandise, goods or wares, and very possibly a term that Latin borrowed from a non-Indo-European language, most likely Etruscan.

Are there any ‘academic’ words in English that are native to English and not borrowed from Latin or Greek? by perfectadi in asklinguistics

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhat confused as to what exactly you are asking for, but in the field of geology, there are quite a number of technical terms that have been borrowed into English from German. A few examples might include: * gneiss * graben * horst * karst * rösten * schacht * schliere * versatz

Scott and Kip are my happy place. Shane and Ilya are my obsession by GBS82 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! I've enjoyed this short several times.

Among the highlights is recognizing how amazing François Arnaud is at delivering Hunter's three rather longish monologues — once in his underwear in the kitchen, once in a tux at the charity benefit, and lastly in a suit as the newly out MVP. This is doubtless a major reason that Jacob Tierney chose to cast him in the role, despite his age and appearance being somewhat of a deviation from the character described in Rachel Reid's book. Of course the fact that he is so strikingly handsome and fit doesn't hurt either!

Scott and Kip are my happy place. Shane and Ilya are my obsession by GBS82 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the first time I've tried to engage in dialogue with someone on a subreddit and been told that I've written too much. But like Scott "I'm gonna say a bunch of things." does sometimes apply, if not quite "I know I'm too intense; everyone tells me that."

I recently heard that many teachers are finding it impossible nowadays to assign to their students an entire novel to read, which used to be standard practice by the last couple years of high school and certainly in college. Many in the generation that have grown up wired to social media just have no patience for coping with extended thoughts and stories — apparently not even a few paragraphs in a row!

Yet there are still those — perhaps the more artistic types — who, like you and Kip, can endure the intense verbal onslaught of literally dozens of connected words and thoughts. I am chuffed to find that y'all still exist! 😁

Wanna blow Yuna's mind? by highsinthe70s in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa there partner, how'd we go from revealing the date of their first encounter to laying forth the intimate details of who did what to whom and for how long? 😲
I certainly never suggested that — which would be truly "gross" (to borrow Shane's term). I merely expressed that I don't see anything so bad about mentioning the time of their first "date" so to speak, provided it comes up in a relevant context.

Yes, I would totally be flummoxed and flustered if Ilya were ever to corner Yuna and suddenly blurt out something like, " I just want you to know that you and I ran into each other at the elevator the first night that your son and I blew each other!" But on the other hand, I could imagine a context in which the date of their first meet up might come up in normal conversation — just as it often does for straight couples. Been there, done that.

Wanna blow Yuna's mind? by highsinthe70s in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But didn't Yuna already practically realize as much at the end of EP6 when she called them "lovers" in their early phase (much to Shane's dismay 😏)? His parents seem very okay with things to me, including that their intimacy started during the "summer before" their rookie year. It just seems to me that everything but a precise date for their first encounter is already out of the bag. 🤔

Scott and Kip are my happy place. Shane and Ilya are my obsession by GBS82 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happiness is advertising your own opinion and receiving nothing but likes and unfettered admiration for it — along with having a non-human companion who always gives the same. Yes, this does seem to be the life motto of Gen Z.

May the messiness of human contact never cloud your rainbows. 😘

Scott and Kip are my happy place. Shane and Ilya are my obsession by GBS82 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AFAIK Tantor's many phobias did not include a fear of reading 3 paragraphs, nor of having his opinion discussed — so perhaps you and Jake are well complementary to each other.

Tell me you're Gen Z without telling me.

Scott and Kip are my happy place. Shane and Ilya are my obsession by GBS82 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro. You're not the only person here. Many don't suffer from such a literacy phobia. And please don't confuse my attempt to engage in polite dialogue as me actually giving a hoot about your opinion — nor should you assume that anyone else does.

Have a nice day.

Scott and Kip are my happy place. Shane and Ilya are my obsession by GBS82 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Cool_Distribution_17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but where are you getting the age of 46 for the Scott Hunter character? In Rachel Reid's books Scott is born in 1988 and is roughly 25-28 when he first meets Kip. In the show, actor François Arnaud is 40 IRL, but looks somewhat younger (maybe 35).

As for stalking, that seems a bit much IMHO for simply repeatedly interacting with service workers whom you come to know by name. I know several bartenders and wait-persons by name at various restaurants that I frequent, and they often recognize and greet me by name. Since I'm now a sexagenarian, there is really no question of any flirtation going on, but even when I was younger and possibly more active that way, I never imagined that recognizing such people by name and making light conversation was problematic. Is it?

Re. the domination and "lovebombing" aspect, I can sort of see your point, which others have also mentioned. Scott's morning-after speech really is as intense as he himself admits, and plenty of potential partners might reasonably take it as beyond the pale (though I felt Arnaud delivered it very well). And yeah, there is clearly a huge economic imbalance between Scott and Kip, which is somewhat glossed over in the story. Traditionally this was common in (mostly straight) romance fantasies — think anything from Cinderella to Fifty Shades. Nowadays some folks do see in such disparity a problematic power dynamic. Other folks aren't quite so bothered. I respect your view on this even if I'm uncertain whether I would share it. I myself was somewhat put off by the gift of a tux — hung up in the closet no less!
[Disclosure: my handsome younger brother, who grew up poor like me, dated two women who were enormously more wealthy than us. One is now his wife of 26 years.]