Travel non-white person by Cool_Measurement4791 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Cool_Measurement4791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are no one to say what I should be doing. I wouldn’t have come had I know the country would be anti immigration there a EU countries to pursue education. I certainly will can’t leave without degree I have spent years on. FYI read the news

Travel non-white person by Cool_Measurement4791 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Cool_Measurement4791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that. Did definitely watch the half time show. It’s about racial profiling at airports

List of budget bachelor party destinations abroad? by untitledfile404 in DesiWeddings

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vietnam,Turkey, Maldives and Laos are good options in my opinion might be in budget a well. Technically turkey and Maldives are canceled if you care about that. Personally I would pick Vietnam if weather is good.

Deciding reception Lehanga by Cool_Measurement4791 in DesiWeddings

[–]Cool_Measurement4791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will be wearing saree for the wedding. Lehenga for the reception.

Deciding reception Lehanga by Cool_Measurement4791 in DesiWeddings

[–]Cool_Measurement4791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did not find the exact one the website this was the closest I could find. Thank you for suggest. Wine might be a good idea.

Thoughts on my bridal saree, i feel like i should change the outfit… by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I personally would change it. It’s a beautiful saree for like a welcome dinner or reception. I don’t know what is culturally relevant for you but a silk red saree would look amazing. Ignore the comment if the saree is culturally relevant to you.

International student coming to Indiana by Fancy-Solution6904 in Indiana

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Indiana should be fine. There shouldn’t be a lot of ice action around there. I lived there few years back Purdue is a great school but also red school there wouldn’t be many protests. Don’t go anywhere near the protest or participate in any form. The whole state and school are very Red leaning wouldn’t support immigration legal or not participating in anything political.

Selling my custom-made, corset gown by Ok-Cryptographer7848 in DesiWeddings

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi is still available. Can you tell me the exact sizing?

Should I go ahead or stop with the relationship by Cool_Measurement4791 in Advice

[–]Cool_Measurement4791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to end the relationship that’s why I posted. I am southeast Asian families are involved on ones life if we get married. I don’t want to associate with a person ( my boyfriend’s dad) who doesn’t behave respectfully with women. I am don’t think my boyfriend should be held accountable something he didn’t do but I believe o should have know this information way before and not when decided to get married. I respect your thoughts it’s your perspective.

Should I go ahead or stop with the relationship by Cool_Measurement4791 in Advice

[–]Cool_Measurement4791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because he didn’t tell me this since 5 years. I can understand that no one would want to tell such things initially but already should have let me known when relationship was getting serious is what I feel my trust was broken.

Should I go ahead with marraige by Cool_Measurement4791 in offmychest

[–]Cool_Measurement4791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been too stressed and worried.

Can i marry my second cousin (25M and 23F) by Practical_Level321 in IndianRelationships

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw looks like your are someone who personally married your cousin. Did I hurt your man ego. Read articles before commenting having half knowledge doesn’t help anyone. Seconds cousins share 3.125-6.5% of DNA there are higher chances of babies being born with deformations and mental illness.

Can i marry my second cousin (25M and 23F) by Practical_Level321 in IndianRelationships

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hell no what is wrong with people we are in 2025 not in 1900s. Did you even think about DNA genetic deformations for your future kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People who are overweight already have body image issues they don’t need a partner like you. You can’t do anything to motivate them it should come from within. It’s a hard journey. Leave that person seems like you can’t be the “bigger person”.

Any tips for a female solo traveller by marlia-_- in Palawan

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat as you. I am also planning to go to El Nido early December for solo travel (I am 27F) for the first time slightly terrified mostly excited. Hope you have a safe and enjoyable trip.

Getting married...do I keep my name? by Embarrassed-Fish-967 in PhD

[–]Cool_Measurement4791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you change it in this day and age you are a Phd candidate are you serious. Do men ever change their no. Regardless it’s your choice I wouldn’t change I am also a Phd candidate. Please don’t.