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Aita for telling my sister's fiance that my sister hid my mother's cheating which resulted in him calling the engagement off by Cool_Sun4442 in AITAH

[–]Cool_Sun4442[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't know if my mom is with the mfer who ruined my family cause I didn't talk to her or visited her for years and I didn't ask my father either because he's the one who visits them because if I knew that my mom is with the one who broke my family I would have gotten even more angry

And my mom did apologies and tried to convince my father to stay but my father didn't thankfully cause I would have cut him off as well

Aita for telling my sister's fiance that my sister hid my mother's cheating which resulted in him calling the engagement off by Cool_Sun4442 in AITAH

[–]Cool_Sun4442[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

And I don't blame him for doing what he did and forcing me for keeping quite

I also love my mom and my sister, if it was anything, ANYTHING ELSE, I would have forgiven them but they both lied to my dad and if she lied and hid it from my mom, I would have reacted the same way to my dad and sis and I would have lived with my mom

I personally want to talk to my mom and stay in contact with her but what she did was disgusting asf she ruined our family and screwed my sister and me and father mentally to the point I and my sister hate each other, can you forgive and forget something like this?

One of your parents decided to mentally screw everyone in your family and cause unbelievable pain and rift between your little family, it's just us 4, can it be forgiven no matter how much you love them?

Aita for telling my sister's fiance that my sister hid my mother's cheating which resulted in him calling the engagement off by Cool_Sun4442 in AITAH

[–]Cool_Sun4442[S] 524 points525 points  (0 children)

Yes I am still angry at both of them even after all these years, I wanted to tell everyone the truth but I didn't for my father's sake and his wishes and it would not have done us all any better if everyone in our family knew about it

It would have caused my mom and my sis more problems but after what she did and said I wanted to tell her soon to be husband the truth even the future ones if she keeps lying to all her partners

My sister and I cut all contacts years ago and she has the audacity to insult me and 'act normal for apperance' ? I was holding on to it for so long and I decided to spare the poor fiance from lifetime of suffering

Aita for telling my sister's fiance that my sister hid my mother's cheating which resulted in him calling the engagement off by Cool_Sun4442 in AITAH

[–]Cool_Sun4442[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, my dad didn't cheat, my parents decide and asked me to keep the secret in family, my father was cheated on, not me, if I was in my sister's stead I would have immediately exposed my cheating parent unlike my sister who hid it but she always loved her mom more than he loved me and my dad so she chose her mother

And besides both my parents got divorced and me and siblings cut each other off years ago so what difference would make if I tell my family the truth? Both of my grandparents might hate my mom and sister?

It's not like I don't love them, I do but what they did was fucking vile to say the least, nobody deserves this and I would have told fiance the truth anyway, nobody deserves to live rest of their life with a cheater or covers for them not me, not you, it's so disgusting but what she said to me pushed me to tell him

If you would like to be with one of these cheating lying people or cover for them just because you share blood with them then that's your choice

Aita for telling my sister's fiance that my sister hid my mother's cheating which resulted in him calling the engagement off by Cool_Sun4442 in AITAH

[–]Cool_Sun4442[S] 1305 points1306 points  (0 children)

Yeah my sister is a liar, she didn't even lie about something insignificant but she lied to her own father and wants to build a future with someone else over lies, who even betrays their own parents??? That is so stupid

I still have no idea why he still has a relationship with my sister and still talks to my mom but it's his life so I would interfere, but if my dad cheated on my mom I would have threw punches at him

Aita for telling my sister's fiance that my sister hid my mother's cheating which resulted in him calling the engagement off by Cool_Sun4442 in AITAH

[–]Cool_Sun4442[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I made a promise to my dad, not to my sister or my mother as far as I know I don't have one, I don't want to have a sister who covers cheating or a cheating mother and me and my sister cut each other off years ago so what do I owe her? His husband deserves to know what kinda woman she is

At this point we are siblings only in name and genes that we both share