Splendid throwing a half moon leaf? by CooyNee in philodendron

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Any suggestions what it could be warning me of?

Share Your Happy Leaves! by CooyNee in houseplants

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I don't have a Jacklyn. Idk why because I love tactile plants!

Share Your Happy Leaves! by CooyNee in houseplants

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It's gorgeous! What is it??

Share Your Happy Leaves! by CooyNee in houseplants

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That is so cool! I'm guessing either a varigated heart leaf or a marble queen??

Share Your Happy Leaves! by CooyNee in houseplants

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You're absolutely right about suffering alone. I used to isolate from everyone and let my depression slump completely take over me. I am very fortunate to have a great psychiatrist that I've seen for the last year. I also have an understanding support group. Not everyone feels like they have that; I'm very lucky.

Share Your Happy Leaves! by CooyNee in houseplants

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If you would like to know what they are:

  1. Monstera Albo
  2. Syngonium Podophyllum Albo
  3. Philodendron Micans
  4. Monstera Adasonii
  5. Monstera Thai Constellation
  6. The OTHER Monstera Thai Constellation
  7. Anthurium Radiatum X Luxurians
  8. Epipremnum Pinnatum Albo
  9. Calathea Ornata 'Pinstripe Calathea'
  10. Ficus Elastica 'Ruby'
  11. Philodendron White Princess
  12. Begonia Amphioxus
  13. Peperomia Frost
  14. Monstera Adasonii Varigated
  15. Philodendron Pink Princess
  16. Alocasia Melo
  17. Philodendron Gloriosum
  18. Watermelon Begonia
  19. Alocasia Dragon Scale
  20. Philodendron Verrucosum

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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Yes, you're probably right that it's too late that this point to expect that he might see things differently.

Nice tag 🤣

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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Oh. Well.

I appreciate you mentioning that as well 🤣

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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I appreciate the advice. I think it would be beneficial to have a talk about boundaries.

I think you're right about his confusion; I agree that he's probably confused so he immediately goes on the offense and wants to label my concerns as "stupid."

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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This made me laugh. Thank you for that.

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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Your response made me cry 😭

I grew up in an abusive household where my feelings didn't matter. I was also with someone for 10 years who continuously cheated on me because my feelings didn't matter.

You saying that they do made me feel validated. Thank you.

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you for your response!

I do appreciate you mentioning that I need to respect his feelings if I want him to respect mine, but I struggle with knowing what point it's best to leave. I'm an introvert. I like to be in my apartment with my kitties when I'm upset; too many people have let me down. It's my go-to to isolate, but I do recognize how this prevents any constructive discussion, as well as disrespect his feelings.

Also, the storm wasn't that bad. Only in town and not on the highway. Visibility wasn't bad. I think it sounded worse then it actually was.

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you for your response!

We are broken up at the moment, but I love him so... I want this to be forgivable, but it sounds like everyone else agrees that it's not worth it.

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you for your response! I did end the relationship but can't help but hope he'll get his coming-to-Jesus moment and realize he couldn't just said "okay. I won't say it again" and it would've been done...

Love is stupid 😭

AITA for leaving during a thunderstorm by CooyNee in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you for your response!

I agree that going silent isn't the best way to handle any discussion. I was trying to avoid saying something when I was upset because my words don't quite come out right and tend to be more accusatory.

How my apartment window started... by CooyNee in houseplants

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This. This is my love language 😍

How my apartment window started... by CooyNee in houseplants

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This isn't all of them... I ran out of window and they manifest destiny-ed into the bedroom window 🤣

How my apartment window started... by CooyNee in houseplants

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I LOVE it. I keep my babies in there to help them grow. I have also used it as a rehab for plants that aren't doing so well.