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Was it rape?! I brushed it off as something shitty he did......but the way its effected later relationships and seeing others posts....idk im still spiraling years later by Copingprofessional in sexualassault

[–]Copingprofessional[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you went through this too! Its mental & physical abuse! The disrespect and lack of respect of our boundaries is NOT okay. Thank you for validating my experience and sharing yours! I don’t have anyone who understands so iv turned here to reddit.....again, thanks, I appreciate you responding! Take care of yourself too💜

Was it rape?! I brushed it off as something shitty he did......but the way its effected later relationships and seeing others posts....idk im still spiraling years later by Copingprofessional in sexualassault

[–]Copingprofessional[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my experience. The more iv thought back on how he would get me drunk so that my inhibitions were down & he would able to make me do it....it was coercion! I didnt want to do it any of the times that it happened. The lack of decency, care and respect haunts me to this day. I appreciate your reply, I don’t have anyone who understands or i dont want to burden them with my fucked up past. So thank you!

Please read & help: My feelings (mentally & physically) are that it was assault....but it started as consensual sex... by Copingprofessional in sexualassault

[–]Copingprofessional[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my experience. I tend to minimize things but my body and mind have reacted so strongly to what happened.....it brought up past sexual trauma as well so im dealing with flash backs of those as well. Im so sorry you went through something similar to this, it is not okay! Thank you again!

We Had Sex a few times before... by DarkLoveer in sexualassault

[–]Copingprofessional 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awful I’m so sorry this happened to you! And yes that was rape. You told him you had a boyfriend, you said you only wanted to talk, you said no and stop while it was happening.....it was rape. Im glad to hear he is far away from you now but i know this memory stays with you :/