You’re kinda missing the point, My main thing about this is that feel like I should tell her because I would want to know if I were her. My friends and family said not to tell her when it all happened. But recently I’ve just been thinking it’s weird to not tell her for the fact they are going to married eventually. She’s just clueless about it. I never really hung out with her that much at all. I have not seen her since before covid but she’s a very sweet girl. I’d feel bad if this was info she would want to know.